<p>omg this is so ***<em>ing weird. and i still think you're a jerk. but fine i'll hug you
*hug</em>
there, bye.</p>
<p>YESSSSSSSSSSSS! Thank you and have a good night!</p>
<p>yeah tufts, you would cry too. i guess you're just that kind of a man. weak b i t c h.</p>
<p>I have made out with other guys while with a guy. Not "real" cheating, but woteva.</p>
<p>I don't really believe in marriage either, and I'm a realist in terms of how relationships end up...not much faith in them.</p>
<p>But yeah. That's one of my big pet peeves....people who are over-idealistic and think everything will last. Most of the world cheats or divorces now...so it's not really realistic to believe in a faithful, traditional marriage.</p>
<p>I think people should work on having a great best friend of the opposite gender if you're straight for example, whom you love and know inside out before working on just a lover. Friendships last longer than romantic relationships, and friendships that lead to RR are the best. But establish the friend factor first...</p>
<p>Sooo I love Cosmo and im not an idiot. Even my guy friend, just because he's trying to get "action" (haha not working yet), reads Cosmo. And pfft Im going to Duke.</p>
<p>NeedAdvice- what did your parents do to you? you sound like a 35 yr old woman.</p>
<p>"I have made out with other guys while with a guy. Not "real" cheating, but woteva."</p>
<p>Loooooooooooooooool!</p>
<p>Hillary clinton does not exist by herselft. there is only Billary...you cant have one clinton without the other...there in lies the problem...well one of the problems with hillary</p>
<p>oh and needadvice...you sound jaded, not realistic...no offense</p>
<p>i agree. i think long term relationships can definitely be successful.</p>
<p>mmm hmmm .</p>
<p>After reading this post I have come to several conclusions:</p>
<p>Hokegoalie, you are a funny dude. I love you man; there are a lack of us out there.</p>
<p>Needadvice, I think it's perfectly reasonable to strive for a lasting marriage. I just have to watch out for people like you who can't make it work.</p>
<p>ineedsleep, no you are an idiot. Like someone already said, even if you dont think so, you still are an idiot. </p>
<p>And lastly, bendrumfront. Oh, where do I start? Lets see, you are for one a JOKE. </p>
<p>You try at humor throughout this thread and fail, miserably...</p>
<p>You sound like a tomboy..."kind of a man. weak b i t c h." "jerk", etc</p>
<p>You completely contradict yourself when you get offended at being called a girl and yet, call HILLARY CLINTON a girl...</p>
<p>You are ignorant and use sweeping generalizations to boast a point. What's worse is that you actually believe them. Do you want to know why there exists such violence and sexual conduct towards women?</p>
<p>For one, men are for the most part physically stronger than women (DO NOT even try to counter this). They also typically tend to be more outspoken and care less to stick up for themselves. Combine that with brute, testosterone driven, lack-of-self-esteem, and sheer competitive men and you have a problem for women.</p>
<p>Also, this is a male driven world. DONT THINK SO? Crack a history book. In monopolised worlds, the strong tend to care less for the weak (ie. eradication of poverty is not possible because humans are too greedy). </p>
<p>As for your comment on men being a dying population. Wow, you are stupid. Enough said on that point.</p>
<p>Now if you didnt notice, I used generalizations in my arguement. Are they true? For the most part I think you will find yes. But there are also exceptions. There are MANY strong, brilliant, independent (sometimes too independent, hey ben?) women out there. And I think you will also find that for the majority, men are not apish brutes. We dont swim in our own feces, and read picture books. We are intelligent, sophisticated, will-driven, and caring. </p>
<p>You see, the problem with feminists is simple. They don't care for "their" gender. They are self-centered and feel they need to make a point. And in most cases, put the other gender on the offensive, hense, not fixing any problems.</p>
<p>Go back to your women's studies classes or uber-liberal magazines and rethink what you believe in.</p>
<p>Oh, and ineedsleep, if you couldn't tell (cough, Ben), there was a hint of sarcasm.</p>
<p>god I hate it when people generalize the word "feminist" obviously you dont know the true meaning of the word or its roots. feminist: a believer in women's rights; thats it. plain and simple. </p>
<p>True, there are many men bashing feminists out there, but there are also feminists who are more "gender egalitarian". To all you man hating feminsts out there: stop it. you are giving feminism a bad name! </p>
<p>And to all those macho men out there: get over yourselves.</p>
<p>so :) ... dam characters</p>
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<p>Luckily I would never consider marrying a person like you. </p>
<p>xoxo</p>
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<p>Wait until you've been in a 3+ years long-term relationship...you'll see what I mean.</p>
<p>About the question of "what my parents did to me": It's quite obvious ain't it? But don't worry kids, your parents won't get divorced too. They're probably just cheating on each other and faking a happy marriage.</p>
<p>Where do I even start in response to the things you said? First I think are you a jerk. Second, you are a jerk. Third, you are an ignorant feminist-basher.</p>
<p>see what i'm talking about^^</p>