<p>if you're having a hard time going up to a girl you'd love to meet, just ask yourself "what would bond do?"</p>
<p>and i'm not joking either...be confident when you see a girl you like and would like to get to know better...they're people too! confidence goes a long way with the female species...and you don't necessarily have to be brad pitt or have the best personality in the world either. </p>
<p>just be yourself and don't be afraid of rejection...if she says no, so what?...there are TONS of college girls out there...</p>
<p>hmmm I think girls were just as creeped out in the 20's, but back then it was even more of a male dominated world, and guys wrote down/remembered what they wanted to...i'm gonna guess they didn't want to remember being creepy. </p>
<p>I would say that being creeped out is more of an instinct, not a response to a specific action. Two guys can do or say the same thing and one cam be very creepy the other could be totally attractive. The creeped out is more of picking up on intentions or connecting to a gut instinct. If a guy's creepy, they're creepy and thats about it. You can't trick a girl into not being creeped out by you if you've got creepy intentions. . . there's something about being female that gives you special instincts. At least that's what I think.</p>
<p>Yeah, I think I'm basically a magnet for the creepy ones. Like, the guys who IM you every time you sign online and somehow get your phone number and ask you out even when you've already made it unfailingly clear that you don't want to date them. Seriously, 3 guys like that asked me to prom this year..I think I have a problem.</p>
<p>hmm...love letters? a friend of mine got a love poem from some guy once but she didn't realize it at the time. for some reason, she thought he wanted her to correct it, so she did and gave it back to him. XD</p>
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<p>I disagree with this statement, because I have a couple buddies who attract all sorts of girls for one night stands, etc. and they're intentions are just that... to come and go... and you should hear the way they talk about the female gender.... wow, sometimes I have to slap 'em for so much disrespect.</p>
<p>i guess intentions was the wrong word... girls can be horn dogs too and sometimes just wanna get on a guy, and if he's hot enough they don't care if its a one night stand... creepiness is.... a combination of loser, pervert, and.... there's just some quintessential creepy factor... its hard to put to words</p>
<p>There are plenty of creepy girls too.... plenty.... I get creeped out by over confident girls, or girls who are aggressive in their speech. I also get creeped out by girls who talk too much ****. Oh, and 40 year old women who come up and try to hit on me.... that really creeps me out!</p>
<p>Yeah, guys..never, ever beep/catcall at a girl walking on the side of the road from your car. That's sooo disrespectful..something that bothers me to no end..</p>
<p>not necessarily...that all depends on the girl's personality...</p>
<p>if you know the girl even a little, and can tell she's into you...(some flirting going on, etc)...then whistling/catcalls and such may be a turn on...especially if it's done in a fun manner</p>
<p>although, i wouldn't advise doing that to someone you've never met, lol...</p>
<p>yes, ONLY if you know them and KNOW that they recognize you! Further, don't ever pull up to the curb in your car and open your door and drive slowly to try to talk to a girl you don't know... they WILL think you are trying to kidnap them. Also if a girl somewhere trapped on public transportation ever makes it clear that she's not interested, don't push it, thats really creepy too...</p>
<p>ahhaah. The guy I kindof like says the cutest things. Like when he said bye on AIM, he says, "I bid thee a hearty farewell!" :) and whenever he says hi on AIM, he always says "Hi ______!" :D. really nice guy, he is. and at school hes very nice too.</p>
<p>To the OQ, most definitely dark hair. Tall, dark and handsome guys are ideal.
I don't like guys who dye their hair. Ech. :p</p>
<p>As for guys. Hmmm. So many are unimaginative creatures to have relationships with, or even to have sex with, for that matter. I'd say either requires some imagination, which a lot of times they lack. I find they can be very selfish and unintelligent. I'm not speaking for all guys, as I do have a great boyfriend. But some of the guys at my public school make me ill.
I guess my friends and I are disrespectful to guys sometimes. It doesn't seem that common to me, though -- it is usually guys disrespecting the females. It bothers me how girls are sluts and guys are studs in the whole one-night stand situation. That's why I have no problem calling a guy a slut to his face. :) Honestly though, those names just aren't nice at all.
Confident guys are attractive. You don't have to be a gorgeousie if you've got confidence and the right kind. Steer away from arrogance, even though I rather like it. Most of my friends seem to hate it.</p>
<p>^ true. that's one thing ya gotta watch...gotta be confident but ya can't come across as a complete dick...</p>
<p>to answer the actual question... hair color doesn't really matter to me. i think there are beautiful women with black hair, blonde hair, brown, etc...it's all about how you pull it off</p>
<p>for the guys...i'd have to say as long as your physical features are proportionate (ie not having a pinocchio nose, or being disfigured)...hair color doesn't really matter...</p>
<p>i've got the typical surfer dude look...dirty blonde hair and blue eyes...and even though these features may be less desirable, women i've been with don't seem to care</p>
<p>although the social ideal for a guy is tall, dark, handsome, etc...many girls couldn't care less about your hair if you're able to put forth your other qualities and positive features...(for ex. telling them how big you are down below...lol)</p>
<p>^^ Hmm... I always thought blue eyes were the most attractive to girls. </p>
<p>I am most attracted to long dark hair on girls. For some reason long dark hair switches a sex appeal signal in my brain.... it's like, "dark hair, she's hot".... however, if a girl displays other positives then I can easily look past hair color... however, I've never been able to force myself to be attracted to a short haired girl.... I even found myself repulsed by Halle Berry after she cut her hair.</p>
<p>the guy I was obsessed with for ALL of HS and still a bit to this day and I think a bit always, has shaggy dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. . . i find them a major turn on...</p>
<p>What do you guys think of long dark blonde hair for girls?? (what I've got) I've always thought guys liked it, but never really heard from an actual guy either way....</p>
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<p>depends on the guy... but me personally, i love girls with long blonde hair...especially the ones that let me playfully run my hands through it... love it :)</p>