<p>Guys - If you flirt with a girl, and that girl notices and tells you she likes you, why do you withdrawn and back away from her?</p>
<p>If that happens, the guy most likely doesn't like you. Usually if a guy is flirting with you it's for a purpose (usually to get you to like him back) and when you confirm his efforts, expect him to answer back with some sort of gesture of acceptance and... well... glee.</p>
<p>Your title is funny</p>
<p>And, if a guy 'flirts' with you and then, once this is reciprocated, withdraws, you were probably blowing the supposed flirting out of proportion (i.e. - he never liked you to in the first place)</p>
<p>Maybe he's just being nice. There are many different subtleties between being nice and flirting.</p>
<p>Being nice: "Did you do something with your hair? It looks nice."
Flirting: "The only problem with sitting next to you is I can't really concentrate on the lecture."</p>
<p>Y'know what, how's about we turn the tide here-- what exactly distinguishes a girls comments as being flirtacious or simply "kindness?"</p>
<p>I've done this so many times in junior high. It's mainly because the guy isn't ready. Of course, we still flirt when we are ready to get the attention, but when we finally do, if we're not ready, we panick and back out because we're not actually ready for any commitment. (Not that all guys in relationships really are ready either).</p>
<p>Don't take it personally. It's because you're attractive that the guy flirts with you in the first place. It's just the prospect of anything more than harmless flirting sometimes scares guys half to death. Maybe when they're ready in the future, they'll come back.:)</p>
<p>maybe flirting is all they want. </p>
<p>or </p>
<p>i don't want to know your name. all i want is bang bang bang.</p>
<p>I agree with welshie about flirting being ambigious. Aside from your notorious flirts who are always busy laughing and placing their hands on a guy's arm or the "playa" who is always saying "sweet" things that make girls blush, flirting is very subjective. It reminds of what a judge had said about porn -- "I know it, when I see it." The line between friendliness and flirting is definitely blurry for some people.</p>
<p>And I don't think guys are the only ones who get scared.</p>
<p>But you can tell from how the guy acts towards others. If he doesn't even make eye contact with the fatties, but talks to you with a sly smile, you know something is up.</p>
<p>If I was gay, I'd be a pimp. But I can't figure out girls. They're all either a bit flirty or a bit shy.</p>
<p>Well, what if he always makes eye contact with you?
Yet he doesn't start a conversation with you afterwards?</p>
<p>tenisghs, it really varies. and it's especially hard to give a good "analysis" with specifics. </p>
<p>I place of a bad response so far. here are a few tips for u girls:</p>
<ol>
<li>a guy will first be attracted by looks. human nature.</li>
<li>personality, money, status, etc...then become to play a role. looks still matter a bit. </li>
<li>if you want to be more attractive to guys. improve yourself in a couple aspects. (looks, intelligence, grades, humor, etc...) every little thing makes up your overall appearance. </li>
<li>don't worry about "what if he's not looking at me anymore", "what if he's giving another girl looks"....use your friggin common sense. but never assume and jump to conclusions. </li>
<li>don't worry TOO much about finding love. </li>
</ol>
<p>i consider myself an average guy and i considered these tips from my perspective as an "average guy"</p>
<p>how do you guys flirt with girls? I need some help in this area. How do I give her hints that I like her?</p>
<p>Tease her a bit. Compliment her. Smile your butt off. =) Don't hide the fact that you like her. She will react. That's how it works. It's good clean fun. But you'll know if she's not feeling it, in which case, just give it up.</p>
<p>boomer: just go with the flow? idk</p>
<p>everyone likes a good chase!</p>