<p>Should a boyfriend spoil his girlfriend? If you're a girl would you want your guy to spoil you to any extent?</p>
<p>Spoiling could be taken in any way, concrete, emotional, etc. Like when a guy lets his girl do anything and agrees with her on every issue. </p>
<p>In my case, I wouldn't feel right if a guy did that. In fact, in an ideal relationship I'd want him to be a little bit domineering... not like in a sexist way.</p>
<p>No, definitely not. That’s asking to be used.</p>
<p>uhm well i would like to be spoiled by the boyfriend but not like to a crazy extent
i mean not in a way that he agrees with me on EVERY issue
but sometimes its nice to be spoiled</p>
<p>i’m a guy… and i would NOT spoil any girl… fools</p>
<p>I want him to want to spoil me, but I wouldn’t let him.</p>
<p>Ha… spoiling girls. That’s never happening.</p>
<p>No way. FallenAngel’s right. Exploiting people disgusts me. </p>
<p>Plus, I like it when we don’t agree on issues sometimes (arguments/debates are one of my strange fetishes).</p>
<p>Absolutely not. </p>
<p>My friend’s boyfriend spoils her like crazy (not just from a materialistic standpoint, but in every way possible). Honestly, it doesn’t even feel like a relationship at all. If anything, it kinda creeps me out that he is that obsessed with her.</p>
<p>Thankfully, I don’t have that issue myself.</p>
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<p>lol yeah, angry sex. x) i think i may have something like that too.</p>
<p>I wouldn’t want a boyfriend to do that by any means. I don’t need to be obsessed over. I wouldn’t mind being spoiled in small ways. Just a way to be shown I’m loved.</p>
<p>My boyfriend pretty much spoils me, its terrible, and in ways I love it and in ways it can make me uncomfortable. My mom pretty much hates it because she’s Asian and just like that. Plus he’s white… :D</p>
<p>His fam is really wealthy so money is no big deal for him, so he always pays for everything. On the other hand, it’s not like he’s just throwing money at me, he’s very thoughtful. When I’m sick, he brings me Starbucks hot chocolate and makes me chicken noodle soup. Idk, maybe that’s more him being whipped? </p>
<p>But I definitely understand it being uncomfortable. I’m used to it because he’s honestly just the nicest kid and pays for his friends when they all go out, but I could see how it could become a “quid pro quo” situation.</p>
<p>Be spoiled. Spoiled your significant other. Symbiotic relationships are the way to go. </p>
<p>I think there’s a wide range of how we’re interpreting ‘spoiling’, though. I generally differentiate between ‘spoiling’ someone and ‘indulging his or her every need at the expense of your well-being’. You know?</p>
<p>I like these responses :)</p>
<p>Frankly, I want my guy to be really good at math so he can be mostly in charge with finances… I make too many mathematical errors. xP</p>
<p>It depends on the occasion and instance. In some cases, it would be nice for this non-existing thus far boyfriend to ‘spoil’ me. But if that was how it was all the time, it would make me a little uncomfortable.</p>