<p>Why would a girl who I hooked up with (and she initiated it) and who made me spend the night in her bed, be so awkward with me. We had been flirting for a few weeks, and then i went out with her the day after we hooked up and she acted so awkward, it was horrible. She is a freshman and I am a sophomore, but this just is boggling me!!!!!</p>
<p>usually alcohol is a factor</p>
<p>Sounds like a sophomore in high school</p>
<p>Remember to leave this drama in high school when you go to college.</p>
<p>So wait.
You were inside her one night and the next she was acting ackward/</p>
<p>Just never call her again.</p>
<p>Hit it and quit it... and you want more? I thought you were a man!!! Forget about her and move on to the next one.</p>
<p>^^^
Oh So Right, Hit it and Quit it!!!</p>
<p>She's probably embarassed about having sex with you when she hardly knew you. Was alcohol a factor? If so, that adds to my impression that what she did with you went against her value system, and she's embarassed about her actions.</p>
<p>You ever think that DeluxeHardballer is some wild party animal that tries to pass off as a social outcast who studies all the time, on CC?</p>
<p>I think it's plausible.</p>
<p>And, is this thread a joke or something? You're what - a sophomore in college, and you don't even know what to do?</p>
<p>Some of ya'll here are right. Just don't call her ever again.</p>
<p>OMG...honestly, did you lose your viriginty to this chick and now your all emotional?</p>
<p>It's always like that right after a hookup. She doesn't know what you (and probably what she) want, and is feeling self concious. Also, she is a freshman and is probably inexperienced, which makes it worse. </p>
<p>If you are interested in more than just that night, you need to break through the akwardness, and soon. I can't really explain how to do this online, you just have to make her feel comfortable. She is probably looking for you to take the lead, so call/im her and keep setting up times to hang out. </p>
<p>The dynamic of the relationship has changed though, so you can't just go back to flirting with her. Your conversations should almost be more substantive, and less flirty. Of course, if you aren't interested in anything more with her, just don't call and she'll get the message.</p>
<p>If you actually wanted something more with her, you wouldn't have hooked up with her.</p>
<p>Use this as a lesson for next time.</p>
<p>Yeah, I think she's weird because she hooked up with you.</p>
<p>this thread has been tagged in the section labeled "funny"</p>
<p>Maybe she has an std or two.</p>
<p>Or seven .</p>