girls

<p>so hypothetically, you're asking out a girl for the first time, someone with whom you've been pretty close friends with for quite a while. everything you've done together previously has been with one or two of her other friends -- going to the movies, cafe, etc. how do you respond now when she says "yeah sure, can I bring [friend]?"</p>

<p>something more subtle than just "no" or "nah i was thinking it'd just be us" or any heartfelt outpourings of emotion -- i guess the type of person/people she/we is/are sort of precludes anything blunt like that. thanks guys!</p>

<p>wow for a second i thought this was meadow36. and i wouldn’t know OP, i’m a girl.</p>

<p>I would say, “I was hoping it would be just us,” and then give her a sheepish smile, but I’m more that kind of guy were that’s why girls (that do like me) like me. I don’t know how you are though.</p>

<p>it’s best to be truthful and say you wanted it to be “just us.” If you don’t, she may not get what you are trying to do.</p>

<p>^^Aaawwww[: how cute</p>

<p>^^Don’t ■■■■■.</p>

<p>Be effusive. Girls love it.</p>

<p>If that girl were me, that would mean I didn’t like you in that way.</p>

<p>^Agreed. You don’t know how many times I’ve been dragged to my friend’s “dates” because they don’t want go with the guy alone or give him the wrong idea.</p>

<p>OP you are fooling yourself. Girls only exist on the Internet. The concept of “girl” is only a theory, it has yet to be proven to be true. now stop pretending and go back to playing WOW or COD mw2</p>

<p>"Just us " + sheepish smile = parfait!</p>

<p>Nulli = playa</p>

<p>that’s genius</p>

<p>If she really asks to bring her friend/friends along, then I’m sorry man but it’s time to move on.</p>

<p>nah i completely understand what you guys are talking about with “friend zone” stuff and it’s not that with this one at least. thanks for the advice!</p>

<p>o_O really? My god man, you gotta give us some details… NOW…</p>

<p>Yea, she probably still thinks of you as a friend. You might want to try to be more explicit.</p>

<p>^Explicit? Lulz.</p>