<p>Hello parents,</p>
<p>This is something I've been seriously considering for a couple months now and would really appreciate some feedback from parents. </p>
<p>I'm a freshman and go to an urban university about 20 minutes away from my suburban home. I think my school is a good fit for me so far academically, however I really miss having the space that I had at home -- ie, my own bathroom, queen size bed, etc etc. I also really miss having a car and having that personal time each morning/afternoon. Additionally, I'm not really into the weekend social scene on campus either and am fine with meeting up with friends during the week -- commuting wouldn't really change any of this. </p>
<p>I'm a little hesitant to bring this up to my parents though. While they never said anything outright, I got the feeling that they were ready to start a different/new life with just the two of them. I guess I don't want to intrude on this, as they've been through a lot over the past few years and I think they may need their space.... on the other hand, I can hardly sleep on my small bed here and the bathrooms are disgusting.</p>
<p>So parents... were you thankful that your children had finally left for school? How would you feel if they wanted to commute instead, had they been going to school locally? Also... how should I bring up this topic? I don't want to come across as unhappy or anything (though it wouldn't be wrong to say that I'm not...litotes anyone?), as they're footing the bill and I really am thankful of that. Anyway... I'd appreciate any thoughts on the subject :)</p>
<p>additional info -- housing is $2500 per semester, so with gas prices for a ~20 minute freeway drive considered I guess it would be saving them money as well.</p>