<p>^That’s just the sort of story I hate to hear, prospect. My high school son, and soon-to-be engineering major, might be like your old roomie. His stats, like lizard’s, put him in the category of “contender” at just about any school he might want. But so far, after numerous college visits, he really only wants schools that aren’t particularly known for their prestigious engineering programs. Or, in most cases, for their “prestige,” period.</p>
<p>He’s very laid back and easy going. He’s as hard of a worker as he has to be to have perfect to very-near-perfect stats in all categories. But I wouldn’t say he’s “tenacious” or “driven.” He’s kind of blessed to just be good at things. I mean, he does everything that comes his way. He’s not lazy. He needs zero supervision. But he’s not one to push, push, push for the next accomplishment. He just has his ducks in a row; does what needs to be done; and typically comes out on top, in terms of stats. He prefers a busy, but very low key, social life. Not a partier. Plus, he loves all the liberal arts and wants to go somewhere with a wide range of liberal arts courses. And he prefers a medium-sized school, whereas a ton of really prestigious engineering schools are huge. Finally, he needs to rely on good merit aid. (which brought us to this thread)</p>
<p>I guess it’s for all those reasons that he so far hasn’t left a “prestigious” engineering school visit going “I definitely want to go there!” He’s always drawn to the medium-sized, friendly, conservative, kind of laid-back, non-competitive campuses – which are typically not known for their go-get-'em engineering. He’ll very likely end up at a “less-than-most-prestigious” engineering school, since those are the ones he’s always so excited about. To name a few that he’s loved, in alphabetical order: Alabama, Baylor, SMU, Vanderbilt, WashU.</p>
<p>We’ve heard all the advice that he should attend a school whose name will open doors for him. One that has a sterling reputation for the best engineering he can get. But so far, my son is resisting that advice. He thinks he will succeed wherever he goes, and that he might as well go somewhere that feels like a really good “fit” to him. (There’s also always advice out there that “fit” is the most important factor when choosing a school.) Maybe the fact that my son is so comfortable in his own skin, and never feels like he has to prove anything, will benefit him when it comes time to participate in the “real world.” Maybe it won’t bother him that nobody is impressed with where he went to school? </p>
<p>Anyway, OP, if you’re like my son, you might like some of his same schools, except for the fact that none of them are on the east coast or midwest (wait … is St Louis midwest?). Alabama, Baylor, and SMU all offer very good merit aid. Vanderbilt and WashU have some hefty scholarships that are very competitive, but somebody’s got to get them, right? We have yet to visit U of Miami, but it’s on the east coast and supposedly has both – good merit and good engineering.</p>
<p>Good luck in your search, leapinglizards!</p>