<p>I won’t speak to the idea of a Smith Mafia because it is a bit insulting and rude on the face of it, though I know the poster who used that term didn’t mean to be rude. I think she was just frustrated.</p>
<p>However, I will say that since I’ve been reading CC there does seem to be a decided effort on the part of some posters (I wouldn’t say the older, more balanced posters posting here) to say that Smith and Wellesley are better than the other three sisters. I have read it often, as in “everyone knows we’re the best.”</p>
<p>I have also statements like, “Smith is just below a school like Yale, and Mt. Holyoke a notch lower.”</p>
<p>Smith’s location is probably more attractive to most folks than Mt. Holyoke’s (though not to all) which is part of the reason that Smith has a slightly lower admit rate. However the stats on the two schools are so close (SAT, GPA, admit rates) as to make them identical, which I know they are not.</p>
<p>I have also read many comments that “Barnard doesn’t really count because of Columbia. It used to be good before Columbia was coed.” This is very insulted to Barnard women who can match any of the others stat for stat, have a rigorous curriculum and a senior thesis, which Columbia doesn’t.</p>
<p>How amazing that the Pioneer Valley has two outstanding women’s colleges. All five of these colleges offers a rigorous education, great alum networks, and sisterhood.</p>
<p>I think they should extend that sisterhood to each other, because each attracts the kind of strong woman who has the confidence and insight to choose a woman’s college.</p>
<p>To the OP, you have had much input, but his is a highly personal decision. I think each school is strong enough across the board to offer a great education and a wealth of opportunity. Go with what your gut says, even if your reasons seem silly to someone else.</p>
<p>I know that in her “Why Mt. Holyoke essay?” my D wrote: in two words, Emily Dickinson, and she proceeded to talk about why ED meant so much to her.</p>
<p>Silly reason? Maybe, but hers. So Smithies, Mohos, Wendy Wellesleys and Bryn Mawters, I salute all of you.</p>
<p>OP: These are incredible women. Enjoy the wealth of opportunity you have been given, give yourself a cut-off date, and enjoy making your decision. I wish you well. I know you cannot go wrong.</p>