Got my Prom date!... now what?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>So I landed myself the girl I planned to ask. She was fairly surprised, too, considering she went out to buy her dress the day I asked her...</p>

<p>Problem is, I'm into her, and in the past I've let her know this, and she had to turn me down because of another guy who she since broke up with. That was a quite a few months ago, so now I'm not sure how to interpret her actions. She's been complaining to me that all the guys she's dated were asses?</p>

<p>What I want to know is how to approach this... talk to her more frequently now? I have a history of reading too much into things, and I don't want to make the same mistake. </p>

<p>And it's Prom, so it's fairly important to me. :)</p>

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<p>ask her to be your gf</p>

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<p>Don’t make the mistake of assuming she has feelings for you. From what you’ve posted there is nothing to suggest that she does, even though it may seem like she does.</p>

<p>You’re right, don’t read too much into things. Go to prom, have fun. If things are meant to develop, they will on their own. Don’t set yourself up for disappointment.</p>

<p>Go to prom, have fun. This is most important.</p>

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<p>Just talk with her. Chat it up in school, text her occasionally. If it’s there, it’ll happen.</p>

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<p>On the way to prom, take hold of the bottom of her dress and try to lift it over her face.</p>

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<p>my friend was in this exact same situation. He decided that sicne they were going to prom, it would be fine to ask her to hang out a few times. so i think they went to the movies and just hung out a few times leading up to prom, which helped make it a more comfortable situation.</p>

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<p>probably a lil late to ask her out because if she does reject you then it’d make an awkward prom most likely… I suggest you just do like supereagle10’s friend did… just hang out with her a few times but don’t date her or anything… unless you are willing to take the chance and having to possibly settle for the #2 girl</p>

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<p>Throw a lot of game at her, but don’t make any huge moves (if she’s sending mixed signals) on her until prom. That would, at the least, make things awkward. Once you’re there, go for broke - you gotta be a man.</p>

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<p>Let’s not get the noob arrested.</p>

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<p>You juts gotta act natural, be you, be cool…</p>

<p>If she has a fun night at Prom, who knows, you may get lucky :)</p>

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<p>^ By lucky I mean she’ll go out with you and be your woman :)</p>

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<p>now you propose and marry her.</p>

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<p>quick hint for you… there’s a reason that all of the guys that she’s gone out with are asses.</p>

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<p>Meaning, all the guys she went out with already are asses because of her actions? Haha, good point. I’ll be careful.</p>

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<p>Lifting her dress comes after prom. On the way to prom pull the top of her dress DOWN.</p>

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<p>Haha, I laughed when I read Goldenrationphi’s post.</p>

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<p>Im in the exact same situation you are Arborus, I landed a girl for prom I really, really like but I kinda get the feelin she doesnt feel the same way. Im not quite sure what to do either, whether tell her the way I feel at prom (at the end of the nite of course, it would majorly akward if i told her that in the begining and she didnt feel the same way), just flat out go for the kiss and the end of the night, or just not do anything and keep hoping. Oh btw saw her with another guy today, it kills me to see her with someone else and maybe have that feeling for the guy that I have for her.</p>

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<p>Prom? Gross. Everyone seriously looks the same.</p>

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<p>speaking from experience here. i had the same situation, i asked a girl to prom about a month before and i liked her. so we hung out one weekend and we got to talking and then we started talking nightly. so eventually i told her i liked her, and she was like i want to take things slowly. so about a week later we were hanging out again, and we were really comfortable with one another. so we decided we would go out with one another, and my senior prom was last night, and it was unbelievable. it was great because really we just hung out and talked. so my advice is take things slowly and let the girl know that you have some feelings for her but dont be outlandish about it, it will happen if it is supposed to happen, just treat her well and be a gentleman, it helps.</p>

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<p>why are you guys having your prom so late???
we had our prom like at the beginning of march</p>