<p>Prom at my school is mid-May.</p>
<p>April 18 here. And my date’s currently in Memphis, so I have some time to contemplate what to do.</p>
<p>Thanks zackr13 will definately do so, it just seems whenever I ask her to the movies or something shes always doing something. Its just hard for me I guess. How would u suggest I let her know I have feelings for her without straight up telling her. I dont want to sound like a jerk, put her in an uncomfortable situation, or make a fool of myself. I go to a small school and once I tell her and she tells a friend the entire school will know.</p>
<p>mine is april 25</p>
<p>Future, don’t mean to discourage you in any way, but if you’re asking her places and she’s saying she’s busy, she should be suggesting later times to hang out if she really wants to go. I could be wrong, however.</p>
<p>Future, why do you think its necessary to let her know how you feel about her? If you are trying to get her to be attracted to you more, you need to completely cut out the lame things like calling her frequently trying to ask her out on boring dates. The problem is that you made her completely sure that you are in her palm, that you obsess about her. That means she will want you less, and will blow you off when you try to meet up, etc.</p>
<p>yeah future i agree with arborus a little about her not making plans for a later time. and nick is partially right about not constantly fawning over her. however, i do think you should be semi-honest with her about how you feel. with the girl i was/am dealing with, i let her know straight up that i had feelings for her. granted she kinda prodded it out of me, but none-the-less i told her. if you don’t want to straight up say it, this is slightly more difficult. plus not all girls are the same, and mine liked honesty. my only other advice would just be treat her well and make her feel that sense of affection, however, she may not be looking for that, which will hinder you and probably eliminate a chance at a relationship.</p>
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If she prodded it out of you that means she already liked you. The rules completely change when a girl already likes you compared to when a girl could like you if you play your cards right. Telling a girl that you like her when she already likes you will obviously have a positive affect. Telling a girl that COULD like you but doesn’t really right now could have negative affects.</p>
<p>In my opinion, don’t spill any ******** about liking her until you have good reason to believe she likes you. Start with working on having her build some interest into you. Then, pay her some more attention while still keeping your own distance. Don’t make yourself overly available. If things are going swimmingly, progressively give her more and more attention. Text her, talk to her, whatever. Don’t get me wrong though, this “attention” isn’t like mushy-gushy “i love you” attention. This “attention” is talking to her, acknowledging her existence, etc. Like i said, don’t make yourself overly available. Girls love attention, but they don’t love obsession.</p>
<p>Good point latency, however, she prodded it out of me more along the lines of me and her simply talking and me slowly letting her know about my feelings. and really good point about the attention, it is all about showing sincerity while not being obsessive.</p>
<p>Dont get me wrong im not one of those creepy kids who likes a girl and constantly is in her business. Ive aked her do stuff (movies or stuff like that) maybe 2 or 3 times seperating them by couple of weeks. We hang out at school and shes in most of my classes im just not one of those kids who can just walk up to a girl and immediatly have them like me. I just think she considers me a friend not someone to hang out with all of the time.</p>