<p>^^^^^This is why you don’t understand the full picture of elite admissions. After being on here (CC) 12+ years there are many things that can be learned if you LISTEN and realize many of the posters on here actually know what they are talking about.</p>
<p>My younger son applied and was admitted to 32 of 34 schools. he was waitlisted at the last two. He had EA acceptances to MIT, CalTech, and others only EA schools. He was accepted RD to Princeton, Harvard, Cornell, Dartmouth, Rice, Swat, Amherst, Duke, UNC, add in 25+ more schools. He was awarded merit and need-based scholies.</p>
<p>The answer you are looking for: not just academics, but leadership, sports, community service, research. Not one thing but an amalgamation of all of it with the academics as a base line. Son had 17 APs, college classes in STEM, research at Duke and UNC med schools, 3 season 4 year varsity athlete and captain, MVP, ran the schools tutoring program and wrote a letter to his great-grandmother every week (he made the time).</p>
<p>Summer practices for his sport and summer classes at the college and summer programs.</p>
<p>I too am the mother of 5, and we LEFT CA for all the reasons you have stated about the problems you are having and then all those looking forward.</p>
<p>We as a family learned what it took to achieve and did it. No complaining, no whining just did what it took.</p>
<p>The system is what it is, I suggest you listen to those of us who have been through it and came out with the “winning” tickets.</p>
<p>Son graduated p’ton with an ECON major (not STEM) applied to med school and had numerous acceptances including HMS. So on the other thread regarding med school, we just did this. B-school as well, all with full tuition scholie, for med school and b-school.</p>
<p>The real key is “to whom much is given, much is expected.” Once you truly understand this you will be able really advise and guide your daughter. Tweaking GPAs isn’t the answer. It is raising a child into a strong, confident and independent adult who figures out what she wants. </p>
<p>Your job is to help her unfold, not mold. She is still in 9th grade, not too early for this site but to early for you to say she will major in STEM. That is too early.</p>
<p>Enjoy the wisdom and friendship here, it helped my family beyond our wildest dreams and then some.</p>
<p>Kat</p>