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<p>I’m curious why you want to go to grad school if you did not enjoy college. Grad school is designed for students who love academics and who are willing to forego a “normal” life for the academic rigor and, often, loneliness of focusing on a single subject. The coursework can be grueling and all-consuming. Your social life gets tucked between studying and writing, not the other way around. I’m not sensing any love for a specific field in your post, which suggests that graduate school may be even less enjoyable for you. Or did I misread?</p>
<p>Universities have two sets of criteria, as many have noted. The graduate school itself has its minimum requirements, generally a minimum of 3.0 in your major field and some base score for the GRE. If your application meets these standards, it then gets passed to the department for a decision. So, a 3.0 might be a minimum for the graduate school, but the individual department may have higher standards.</p>
<p>Since the department, and not a general admission office, makes the final selections, recommendations and grades/coursework are everything. This is also where the “peer evaluations” that USNWR cites as being important to ranking come in. Stanford is <em>highly</em> regarded, so that will help. I suggest working closely with some Stanford professors who will later be able to not only write recommendations but also to suggest places for you to apply. For instance, Professor X may have a former student who is now the chair of a department at University Y. Or he may have written several papers with a senior faculty member at University Y. Or both. This professor may suggest that you apply to University Y without telling you why because he knows that his recommendation will probably carry extra weight. Likewise, the more well-known a professor is in his field (you can gauge it by referenced papers), the more weight his recommendation will have – provided that he writes good ones, something you won’t be able to tell unfortunately. Listen to where he suggests you apply because he will have a better gauge at where you have a chance than you will. You should apply to programs that interest you, naturally, but make sure you include some of his suggestions.</p>
<p>If he hedges at all, then you may safely assume that you may not be ready for graduate school. Or that he’s not likely to write you a good recommendation.</p>