<p>teachandmom-
like others here have said, I also ‘know of’ my son’s Stafford loan balance and his repayment schedule etc.
That’s because his Dad and I coached him through the loan process from age 17 until now when HE is repaying the loans in his name. No big mystery. He had questions along the way…how much to borrow, accept unsubbed loan?, etc…we supplied some parental wisdom. That’s what parents do, yes?
He asked me to review his loan accounts online as he set up the autodebit. OK, all set.
I don’t have access to his loan accounts online nor this bank accounts. Nor do I want it.
I’m just the Mom…and I help when asked. Parenting adult ‘children’ doesn’t have to have an abrupt end, does it?</p>