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<p>Yeah. That's what he says. I wish I had had that level of confidence in me. He never once doubted I'd make it; I doubted it daily. Go figure. Reckon he knew me better than I did.</p>
<p>Toward the gist of this thread, I'd like to throw in an observation that I may be in a unique position to offer (well, except for GA and a few others). I went through USNA and graduated. I remember my parents both before and after those five years. I remember their interest and concern before, their unwavering support during, and their infinite pride and euphoria afterwards. It is VERY difficult for a Mid to understand what his parents are going through because he is so wrapped up in daily life at USNA. But later, as the years pass and you get the chance to know your parents as one adult to another rather than as a kid to a prent, you will begin to understand. They day YOU have kids, another piece of the puzzle will fall into place. Even then, you won't fully understand (and I don't pretend to) unless YOUR kid gets in and goes through the process.</p>
<p>In the old days, the parents fretted alone, unless they were lucky enough to be in a Navy community or had another set of Academy Parents nearby. Nowadays, the web allows them to share stories, experiences, suggestions, etc. Most importantly, it allows them to give comfort to one another. It cannot be easy to have your Mid call home in a panic because he's failing EE, and then have to hang up and just sit there. At least here they can discover that the Mid in question is not alone, and neither are the parents, and that yeah, the kid will most likely be OK after all.</p>
<p>If you want to argue that this is the wrong place for that kind of bonding and discussion, then I suggest you contact the site administrators and complain to them. I think they'll ignore you, but in case they don't, I am a Moderator at a similar site where I guarantee you these ladies (and gentlemen, when appropriate) can gossip to their heart's content without ever fearing getting booted off.</p>
<p>I'm simply glad that I'm able to provide a little help. Perhaps the Lord will take that into account on the day I stand before Him. Besides, it's fun to watch these ladies chat and hear the echos of stories my mother told me about when I was a Mid.</p>