<p>Weenie,</p>
<p>Of course, I understand your sentiments towards Greek life. I too had similar feelings entering RPI. I knew what most did about fraternities and when rush started, I attended events mostly for the free food.</p>
<p>Ultimately, I was proven wrong in my assumptions of Greek life. It is far more than a group of guys who drink beer together. </p>
<p>You mention that you are hesitant regarding the strong presence of fraternities. I think what you are ultimately referring to is the fact that there are 28 fraternities and 30%+ of the male student body occupying them. </p>
<p>You should not be hesitant about this. It means there are fraternities to represent the range of diversity found at RPI. If your son does go to Rensselaer, I am sure he will find that the Greek members of our community are friendly and helpful, regardless of his interest in pursuing Greek Life. He may find a group he fits in with and respects. Regardless of his initial feelings, he may choose to go Greek, as I did several months ago.</p>
<p>The goals of Greek Life at Rensselaer are to instill family-values amongst its members, to provide academic and personal support for its members, to contribute to the Rensselaer and Troy, NY communities and also to provide a rich social life for RPI. I guarentee I have left out several in this list. </p>
<p>However, that last one, the "rich social life" seems to get the most attention. And, if you don't mind, I would like to make a few comments on it. </p>
<p>First of all, many of the social events provided by Greek Life are non-alcoholic. Recently Pi Beta Phi hosted its Annual "Mr. RPI", which has been a hit since its inception. </p>
<p>This doesn't mean I close my eyes towards college students drinking, however. I think that the only way to approach this issue is honestly. This is impossible to do amongst administrators, because they have external pressures preventing them from doing so. I hope, as a parent, you are able to evaluate the situation with care and honesty.</p>
<p>When "kids" enter college, they make a transition. Although I am certainly still a kid to my parents in some regards, they also see me as an adult, which is what I have transitioned to, and what your son is in the midst of.</p>
<p>With this new transition towards adulthood and independence, it doesn't seem shocking that one would at least experience alcohol once. The forbidden fruit is finally attainable. </p>
<p>Often, students drink and find they enjoy it; they meet new people and ultimately have a positive experience. How often they choose to drink after their first experience is not all the same, but, from my experience, it does not affect other aspects of their life, just as going to a movie tends not to.</p>
<p>This is all a pretty picture so far. I recognize that there are enormous dangers associated with consumption of alcohol, when it is used in an uncontrolled, unsafe environment. This is not the environment of fraternities at Rensselaer. My fraternity, Phi Kappa Theta, as long as the other 27 fraternities and our 4 sororities have extensive sober driver policies that are heavily enforced, not by RPI, but by ourselves. We have drivers 4 nights a week from 10 until everyone of our brothers is back home safe. Additionally, when entertaining we have sober hosts, and bartenders to control the situation, and keep everyone safe. </p>
<p>In fact, I have never seen anyone seriously, or even moderately injured as a result of alcohol at my fraternity or at Rensselaer. Our only incident this year was a suicide. The truth is, Rensselaer is a very tough school academically, with little to enjoy socially as a stress reliever.</p>
<p>I fear that students will not stop drinking after this rule is instated. They have earned their stress relief as much, or in my opinion far more, than most other adults in society. What will happen when they are pushed to house parties and 3rd party vendors to consume alcohol?</p>
<p>They will be in uncontrolled environments, in the city of Troy. They will be in great danger. They will walk or drive through Troy intoxicated. Rules will not prevent this. </p>
<p>Alcohol is a volatile part of society. But it is part of society and it can be handled carefully. Greek life does this.</p>
<p>I apologize for the long response, but I fear that most have a skewed perspective on Greek Life. We are contributors to society, in countless ways.</p>
<p>I hope you, and others, will give more thought to the true ramifications of what Rensselaer proposes, and its effects on the school, Greek life, Troy and, most importantly, the safety, well-being and future of its students.</p>
<p>Thanks, again, for your time.</p>
<p>-Nicky Hajal
Phi Kappa Theta
<a href="http://www.SaveRPIGreeks.Com%5B/url%5D">www.SaveRPIGreeks.Com</a></p>