<p>Hi. This is really imp!!! I would really appreciate your help!</p>
<p>I was a late applicant to both of these really good schools, and have been given the privilege of choosing between them (both have hinted at an acceptance really strongly, but not directly; they are waiting for one last piece of the app, after which they will truly give their decisions). Now, one of them has asked me to basically give them a "yes" or a "no" (because they need to make special arrangements really soon to give me a yes, which will be binding).</p>
<p>So, a bit about me before I state my questions. I am an int'l (from a part of Asia, but one that is not very represented in prep-schools, though really really over-represented in American colleges). And a guy. Academically, I would say I am good - I got all A+ this term at a really prestigious int'l school (only person in a class of 350). I personally like a steep learning curve, but this is not as important as community/culture.
I am good at the piano and lots of other activities (both schools are at the same level activity-wise for me).
But here's the thing - I'm not really that athletic, and there will be a big culture
gap between me and the average student in the US. So, as you would know, this does get
socially pretty challenging. So, being a welcoming community is really important. </p>
<p>I'm currently boarding at a really prestigious int'l school not in my country, where the boarding community is just like 10% of the school (but I LOVE boarding). And I will be joining either of these schools this Fall.</p>
<p>Which one would you say is more welcoming? I seem to get this impression that Groton is very WASP-y and elitist, but only from this website. The campus visit was great (but since it's a late app, not during the school yr, so basically I didn't get to "feel" the place), and my tour guide was amazing.
I really like St. Andrew's, but is it academically "inferior" to Groton? Some say it is, some don't.</p>
<p>And, if you do have anything to say about the schools (not basic stats, more on the culture etc.), pls do!
Please don't say "go with your gut", because I didn't visit these schools during the school yr, and thus didn't get to feel their "vibe".</p>
<p>Sorry for keeping it so long, but I am really in a confused state!!! Thanks in advance!!</p>