<p>Just trying to make sure I do this right....if I ask the GC to write such a letter & send it to schools my son applies to (I've checked w/at least one of the schools, they're okay w/letter instead of form)...will the same letter be sufficient for all schools to which son applies? I would think so, but just want to check. Tyring not to impose on GC more than necessary.</p>
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<p>The form should still be sent. It asks for some information that colleges use to get a sense of the student in relation to his peers (including all those boxes to be checked). Most GC's will also write a letter to accompany the form, but the form is important. Having been a school counselor myself, I would never send the letter without the form. </p>
<p>The student should be the one asking the guidance counselor for recommendations, and asking that certain things be included. I do have my students fill out a questionnaire for me that asks them questions about their MAIN activities outside of the classroom (including hobbies), their academic interests and career goals (if they know them), and an explanation of why they have chosen the schools they're applying to. If your school doesn't use a questionnaire, giving the GC a brief one page letter of the KEY things the student hopes to get across can work too.</p>
<p>A one page resume of their MAIN EC's, in order of importance, with some information about what they have learned about themselves from participating, is also helpful.</p>
<p>If they give me a copy of their main essay before I start writing the recommendation, that is also extremely helpful as it lets me get a sense of how the student sees themself.</p>
<p>I also ask each student to let me know which teachers will be writing their teacher recommendations, and to provide the name of one or two other teachers that they feel know them well. That way, if I need more insight into the student, I have someone to talk to.</p>
<p>I really love it when students make sure to include their email address with all of their information -- I sometimes need to get clarification, or ask additional questions, and shooting out an email is much easier than tracking the student down at school. I also appreciate it when students give me all of their recommendation forms and requests in an organized manner, including a separate list of the colleges they're applying to, so if something gets lost (happens!), I have a backup list.</p>
<p>I ask parents to fill out a questionnaire about their children, but, to be honest, most of what I say in the recommendation letters really comes from the student, my interactions with them in the past, and sometimes some feedback from their teachers. However, I do appreciate hearing from parents when they have specific concerns about how I will cover certain issues (i.e., will disciplinary issues be mentioned? Should the student disclose a learning disability? Are you aware of these family issues at home? etc.). </p>
<p>However, I really dislike when parents call me to INSIST that I write the letter in a certain way or when they are the main point of contact, not the student. I am writing the letter for the student - the student needs to be the one asking for my recommendation, contacting me, and providing the information to me IN THEIR OWN WORDS, not the parents. Worst of all is a parent who keeps bugging me for a copy of the letter before it is sent, and then complains that I didn't manage to include every single thing Johnny has ever said or done. It's impossible to do that in a page or page and a half!</p>
<p>Hope this helps!</p>