<p>Hey guys, I thought I'd make a thread for us to share and get advice/complain about problems we are having with the opposite sex, just because it's really bothering me lately.</p>
<p>Here's mine:
So this guy Ive been talking to for a year now (mostly on Facebook because he lives too far away, but we make sure to talk as much as possible whenever we see each other which is like once a week since were in the same program) and I have gotten pretty close. He tells me how attractive and smart and funny I am and we have inside jokes. He hugs me all the time when we actually see each other. He comments on practically all of my statuses and my friends are all saying that he flirts with me a lot and probably likes me. Whenever were both online we always chat each other. Im like in love with him hes perfect in every way. The problem is, hes randomly stopped chatting me for like a week so far, which hasnt happened before. The last time we communicated was when he liked my photo and commented on it and I chatted him but he didnt seem too into it like before. Now I see him online all the time and he just ignores me doesnt comment on my statuses or chat me or anything. Hes going to college in the fall (while Im a rising senior), but hes said before that he wants to keep in touch. What is going on? I miss him and dont want to make the first move again in case I just seem annoying. Has he just forgotten about me?</p>
<p>If he’s just graduated it’s also possible he’s busy with stuff–if you’re really that good of friends, you should just ask him what’s been up recently. Don’t be angry, don’t even have to bring up that he hasn’t been as friendly, just ask what’s been going on. Don’t be afraid to make the first move just because he’s been the one to do it in the past. If he’s annoyed by you doing so, then you know he’s already started moving on anyway.</p>
<p>If he lives too far away for you to see him on a regular basis, then it shouldn’t be a surprise that there will be a day when the guy starts to lessen or stop the keeping in touch part.</p>
<p>My boyfriend an I have been dating for six months and we have had our fights but only one huge fight which was caused because this girl kept putting her hands all over him and he just let her and lied to me about it but he was at his friend ashleys today an never responded to my texts while I was on break and when I talked to him while I was at a grad party he told me he was there with her and her friend haley watching movies. Something I me just snapped and I just don’t know why I never feel like this. I trust him but I just dont know why I feel like this… Help please</p>
<p>Trust me I know but this is my longest relationship and it’s not like I want to break up with him I just have like a really bad feeling and I don’t get it because I know I trust him</p>
<p>My boyfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago because I felt as though I couldn’t trust him anymore. I recently found out that he spread lies about me to all our old friends, and everyone believed him. I was left effectively ostracized from my one group of “friends.” Everyone just gets together and calls me horrible names and spreads MORE lies about me, and no one will listen to my side of the story. Thankfully, I’m going to boarding school next year, but… that really doesn’t soften the blow. I’ve known these people since 3rd grade, too…</p>
<p>Yeah, he’s kind of the lovable nerd. But everyone has said to me that they like him so much because they aren’t intimidated by him or jealous of him. That’s pretty awful, in my mind, since they don’t care about his personality… But I suppose I shouldn’t be defending him anymore. I don’t know. The only thing I DO know is that I’m single for the first time in 2 years. Yeah, we’ve been dating since 7th grade. Meh. Done ranting now!</p>
<p>well, i like my pastors daughter, while my pastor may be an awesome guy, i really dont know if asking his daughter out would be reeeaalllly awkward, like, what if i break up with her or hurt her feelings unintentionally? i’d have to face him every sunday and wednesday 0_o lol idk what to do though because i like her alot and she has gray eyes which im a sucker for aha help :O</p>
<p>Whoa, that is one of the most difficult scenarios in history. If you look like a sweet lovesick guy, and he’s known you and liked you, then he’ll probably say yes. I guess you probably should not be thinking of how to break up with her the second you start dating her. Don’t say anything that might be a little racist, you never know her backstory. I assume you never have any intentions of cheating on people, so that’s out of the question. It all depends on whether or not you take that big leap of faith (I swear that pun wasn’t intended) and ask the pastor.</p>
<p>lol thanks, and yea he likes me pretty much i help him around the church and stuff and im cool with his son too, plus shes white and im black so, i dont know how kentucky would look at that as regular, but i wont care aha</p>
<p>Get her fathers permission it’s the best way to go about it and if you are already close with the family I don’t see the issue</p>
<p>And I talked to y boyfriend last night about it and I felt soo stupid after the fact ashley is one of his best friends they have been friends with her since kindergarden and she just moved back from south Carolina I just didn’t know anything about her or anything so I thought that she was one if his skanky friends because he has a few of them that hang around</p>
that really blows
Done ranting now!</p>