<p>Here is your chance to list any fustrations you have about relationships, have any love advice, ways you got a girl or guy.....anything goes. Ok, I'll start.</p>
<p>Ok, I've wanted to just say this for a very long time. Guys, we don't understand you either! Every guy I know says "I don't understand girls" but really we have as much a clue as you do! I am, I guess, a tomboy and have spent my whole life around guy stuff, and I still have no clue! Hahahahaha!</p>
<p>Girls are a lot harder to understand. Ok, here is my story. I asked out this one asian girl at my school. She's a year older than me. She tells me that her parents can't know if we go out and I am ok with it. In our entire relationship, we went on only one date. This is because she kept saying that she is very busy with stuff such as piano. One day, I was out with my friend studying for a test in Calc. We did that for about an hour, and the next hour, we went to try and find her a present for our one month anniversary. It took us forever to find an open store because it was around 9 at night. We finally found a target and went inside were I saw a friend of hers. I asked her what i should get her for our one month anniversary. She told me to get her a purse or earrings. I went with earrings that cost 30 bucks. I get home, and I see an email. It was from my gf. She told me that she wanted to break up with me and just be friends. She said that she wasn't ready to be in a relationship. I called her two days later, and spoke to her about why she broke up with me. She told me a different reason. This time it was that she is very sick (i have no idea whats wrong with her) and that her parents are putting too much stress and she just couldn't go out with me anymore. Then, i talked to her again 2 weeks later, this time in person. I asked her again why she broke up with me and she said that she realized that it is more fun to be single. That really upset me. She started walking away and thought i was going to go with her, but I just took off. I didn't talk to her for another month. This was just 3 days ago when i tried to talk to her again because she stopped talking to me. She wouldn't answer my calls, my emails, and my text messages. So, i asked a friend of hers to ask her why she's ignoring me. Here is what she told me. She said that my gf never liked me, went out with me just because she felt sorry for me, and she sees no point in talking to me anymore which is why she is ignoring me. The entire month, i couldn't get over her. I thought like we could still be going out. And now I see why. I went from being sad, to being very angry. I know this story is kind of long, but it shows you why some girls are impossible to understand.</p>
<p>Sounds like you have problems LOL what are your 12? f</p>
<p>I am 16, not 12. She was 18. I am turning 17 soon, so there is a one year difference pretty much in our age.</p>
<p>If she was 18, and you 16, no DUH, chicks are turned-off by younger guys. They prefer older men. I suggest you hook up with a 13yo', roflmao.</p>
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If she was 18, and you 16, no DUH, chicks are turned-off by younger guys. They prefer older men. I suggest you hook up with a 13yo', roflmao.
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Guys are turned off by younger chicks too I guess.</p>
<p>That's for unsecured guys only. LOL. :)</p>
<p>Uh? What guy wants to go out with a 13 year old.. :S</p>
<p>I think if you're 16 and you want to go out with a girl in middle school, there's an issue there. :P</p>
<p>i really think girls should just say freaking no to a guy if they don't wanna go out with them and falsely lead them on. i know one of my best friends who went out with a guy just bc she didn't want to upset him by saying no.</p>
<p>true. girls do lead on guys a LOT. me for example. theres this guy who apparently saw one of my blogpages and a couple pictures of me and he has seen me around school and he claims that he is in love with me. we talk on AIM a lot. he keeps asking me to movies, to go play tennis, etc. and ive had to say things like "im busy" to "we'll see" to "my parents wont let me" and ughh. but i really want to be his friend cause he seems like a nice guy. but i cant tell him to stop liking me because i know if i do, he will flat-out not talk to me and hate me forever o<em>0 yeah hes a weirdo. but i am an attention whore -</em>-.</p>
<p>That's the problem. When a guy likes you, even if the feeling isn't mutual, we don't want to stop knowing them altogether! But guys don't understand that kind of thing. I am too an attention whore lol. As if you didn't know.</p>
<p>haha i didnt know you were an attention whore, celebrian. forreals. but we can start a support group! :)</p>
<p>GUESS WHAT. i have this really cool clock thing that tells me the date, day, time, temperature, can serve as an alarm, timer, and can countdown to dates!!! :)</p>
<p>I need that! I have serious disorganization problems so I could really use a cool clock thing like that!</p>
<p><em>apologizes for derailing the millionth conversation lol :p</em></p>
<p>OH uhh back on topic:</p>
<p>So next year for my junior prom i wanna ask this guy who is 1 year older than me. hes pretty cool :) kinda shy, but really nice and friendly and stuff. YAY.</p>
<p>"i really think girls should just say freaking no to a guy if they don't wanna go out with them and falsely lead them on. i know one of my best friends who went out with a guy just bc she didn't want to upset him by saying no."</p>
<p>Thats exactly what happened to me. And, i don't see why 1 year should matter all that much. Who really cares. Its not like theres much differene in intelligence or size. I'm a foot taller than her, but she's probably a lot smarter than me. She got into NYU stern and is probably going there.</p>
<p>Girls have a tendency to flirt way too much. Its wierd, but blonde girls seems to be more humble than their brunette counterparts. You can disagree, but thats what I've learned from my experience :)</p>
<p>Basically, most girls are stupid. Which is good for a guy because if he's knows how to manipulate them, he'll get a lot of girls.</p>
<p>Not trying to be offensive, but a lot of girls don't know what really goes on with their BF outside of the relationship.</p>
<p>Most girls have compassion for everything from the special kid in the electric wheelchair to a dead butterfly. Guys fit somewhere between those 2. It's harder for a girl to let a guy down, even though in reality most guys would just move on to the next girl. They know THEY would feel like crap if someone they liked was like "i don't like you" so they don't want to do the same thing to someone else. </p>
<p>And to that guy talking about the asian girl, she was probably thinking about dumping you for a while, but all the while wasn't sure. That's probably why she still asked for a gift. Girls have trouble making up their minds. She most likely wasn't waiting for the gift, then going to dump you. And she probably felt really bad. A lot of Asians in general have serious parental issue (no offense, just the ones I know). Maybe a bf just didn't fit into the equation.</p>
<p>girls should be straightforward.</p>
<p>Most girls are psycho, especially if they're unnaturally attractive (fake breasts, hair, nails, tans, etc.). The most idiotic chicks I have experienced are the ones who are what I call "try hards". They somehow think they have it all figured out because they are getting all sorts of attention from horny guys at a club, but what they don't understand is that these guys have basically no respect for the girl, and have just learned (through experience) that these unnatural "try hards" are easy to lay.</p>
<p>The girls who I find attractive, and a tough catch, are the naturally sexy charmers who have nothing to prove, and don't "react" to male attention that they obviously get.</p>
<p>There's my .02.</p>