<p>So, I've been talking to this guy for a while. He's a senior and won't be here in the fall but he's sweet and I really like him. Is this a good idea? a freshman dating a senior? lately I've been thinking and Idk what I will do when he leaves to college.. :( help?</p>
<p>I would advise against it for he will never love you. He will simply use you for his pleasure 'till it is his time to go.</p>
<p>Well, aren’t you solely friends with him currently? Is he going to be within close proximity to you?</p>
<p>nothing4me: are you sure this is true with all guys? </p>
<p>Warts, I’m not even sure…He says he’s not going to talk to any other girls, he doesn’t want me not to talk to any other guys, and he wants to be more serious… I believe the college he will be attending is a few hours away.</p>
<p>One of my friends last year (as a freshman) started dating some senior mid-way through the school year. He attends college in another state (which is a few hours away) and everything seems to be working out well for them. They visit each other every now and then and both of them seem really content.</p>
<p>Well, if it’s solely a few hours away, the relationship might work.</p>
<p>^^you give me hope =]</p>
<p>Let’s see if he asks you to Senior Prom. Next milestone-you two date over summer. Get through all that and then worry about the sad goodbye when he leaves for college.</p>
<p>He’s already asked. . .</p>
<p>Well, it would look odd if a senior asked a freshmen to prom.</p>
<p>You know, every Senior Prom after this one will pale in comparison. Just saying…
But hey, you two crazy kids have a great time.</p>
<p>I didn’t say yes . . .</p>
<p>…yet?
Or did you decline?</p>
<p>I would be quite careful. He could be in the act of attempting to “get laid” before high school ends". After all, it is his senior year.</p>
<p>did you totally reject him?</p>
<p>on the same token (not really), a mentally challenged girl asked me out, and i don’t want to be mean :/</p>
<p>nothing4me: eh…I don’t even want to ponder that thought right now…</p>
<p>Maple&Batllo: I said idk…I want to go…for you…but prom…isn’t really my thing [or i said something like that…]</p>
<p>aww Maple, I’m sorry about that.</p>
<p>Ponder never, ponder later.
Pondered too late.</p>
<p>Think of it.</p>
<p>Please consider going.
You are too young to say “it’s not my thing.”
Don’t limit yourself.
Dress anxiety, perhaps?</p>
<p>gahh! You make me feel like I’m doing something wrong…I’m having doubts again…</p>
<p>However, I’m going to go with the “If I don’t do it, I’ll always wonder what if?”</p>
<p>too young? I might…</p>
<p>If you go, be careful. Just saying. I don’t know the guy, so I can’t say…</p>