<p>Just say yes to the young man.
Go, experience Prom and if you don’t want to, don’t go to another one.</p>
<p>trumpgal- Read post #4- Disregard my above postings. Stay away from this over possessive creepo. He’s not sweet. He’s constructing a lair to hide you in from the outside world.
Sorry, I didn’t read all your responses until now.
Stay safe.</p>
<p>I don’t know if this is relevant, but my friend went on my prom with him last year. (and surprisingly, he was voted prom king as well). But she’s one of those people who could care less what anyone thinks of her or her relationship (which people thought would go down the drain after a while). People didn’t approve of them dating for stupid reasons (e.g. she was the shortest freshman and he was the tallest senior), but somehow they make it work and she is [genuinely] in love with him. I could tell…</p>
<p>Personally, I’m kinda cynical about most relationships with a wide age gap because of the huge maturity factor - but that’s just me. </p>
<p>Some relationships work, some don’t. If they do, then great. If they don’t, you learn from it and move on and hopefully something better comes along the way…</p>
<p>If I were you, I’d not go out with him. Because I am highly positive that it will end. Depending on where he’s going for college, communication can be a bit of a problem. He will meet other girls there too. I know a girl who went out with this guy (who’s a frosh in college now) for 1-2 years, but a few months after school started they broke up.
I don’t know, that’s my take on it. But if you guys really like each other then go for it. Good Luck!</p>
<p>over possessive creepo? haha are you being serious?</p>
<p>xx, why did i think you were from jersey? …</p>
<p>elau, thanks for the advice.</p>
<p>Haha actually I kinda agree with Batllo. From what you’re saying, it does seem like he’s a little possessive. :/</p>
<p>^^Originally from NJ lol</p>
<p>He’s not going to talk to other girls…he doesn’t want me to talk to other guys…
Isolating behavior-kinda possessive, don’t you think</p>
<p>I agree with Batllo. I personally wouldn’t date anyone who tried to control me</p>
<p>Hmm…now that you put it that way…
I agree with the people who say to be careful. I didn’t notice the part about not talking…that sounds like he doesn’t trust you very much? Weird.</p>
<p>xx, ohhhhh :] I thought I was having a moment…</p>
<p>batllo: by ‘talk’, he means try to get in a relationship with. He is okay with me having guys that are friends. He has somehow found a way to get over one of my guy friends looking down my shirt every day!! gah! [I wore t-shirts this entire week =] except today.</p>
<p>He just doesn’t want me dating a guy while I talk to him…why is this bad? Do you guys date and have a gf at the same time?..? what?</p>
<p>^ ***, your school is perverted and messed up O_o</p>
<p>Wait what? You mean two timing?</p>
<p>Your guy “friend” looks down your shirt every day?? :eek: I’d punch any guy in the face who did that!! </p>
<p>Also, that’s a weird use of the word “talk…”</p>
<p>^I AGREE!!! not alll of the guys, but most of them…</p>
<p>^^exactly, at my school we say talk. talk means you are getting together with someone and becoming more than friends.</p>
<p>Trumpetgrl: Don’t you have a boyfriend already?</p>
<p>Reviewing your history on HSL, this post is a little odd since you asked Me, TCBH, and NulliSecundus for an advice on your previous situation.</p>
<p>^yeah that’s what i’m wondering about too now. o.O</p>
<p>What is this “guy troubles” thing? How come I’ve never had guy troubles …</p>
<p>And yes, it’s a good idea to keep talking to him. It’s always nice to have a friend.</p>
<p>TGrrl- To the guy who looks at your “gals” through your t shirt say… “Jerk, my eyes are up here.”
Double dipping is not cool. You will get a reputation and you still have 3 long years at your hs.</p>