I have learned that I need to trust my son – he is 18 years old and knows his situation. He is severely allergic to sesame, so much so that even kissing a girl that had eaten sesame hours earlier sent him to the ER. He has several epi pens, and I just pray that he does take them. I have a feeling that he does not, but I need to trust. Luckily, he can detect sesame in foods as his tongue goes numb quickly.
It is stressful, but they need to learn how to live with it.