<p>I think that you should consider many other options. Here’s the deal:</p>
<p>1) To get into Harvard you will be competing with the best the world has to offer – including 18 year olds who have started their own (successful) business or who have earned Olympic gold medals or Oscars for their movie work. You may be the top student at your school but you are not competing against the other kids in your school. You are competing against the valedictorians of America’s 30,000 high schools. I</p>
<p>Every year we have the Kentucky Derby. Nineteen blazingly fast horses run. There are no donkeys in the race. Only one wins. A smart trainer enters his/her horse in some other races besides the Derby! So, you should have some other paths you are exploring. </p>
<p>2) We are in the midst of a huge economic recession. While International students absolutely add to the campus, why should Harvard take an International who needs aid when it can get Price So-n-so who will pay full price? Harvard does, indeed, take some full ride Internationals — but you are talking one, two or three – not even several dozen. It is a terrible time for colleges and that means it is a terrible time for needy International students. </p>
<p>3) Know that Harvard has grad school. If you earn a great degree elsewhere, you may be able to get to Boston in a few years with a much better economic picture unfolding. Note: many times a PhD program pays the student to participate (not all, but some do)</p>
<p>4) Welcome to the crazy world of financial aid. Usually private colleges require the student to fill out the FAFSA and the CSS Profile. There are questions on the Profile about parent’s house – including when it was purchased and its current value. This is an asset your family DOES have, so why shouldn’t the college consider it? I don’t know how Harvard works, but, in my experience, financial aid officers are tasked with getting families to pay as much as possible (which tends to be a whole lot more than the family wants to pay). </p>
<p>Lastly, consider what you are asking of your family. Say you DO get into Harvard. Will you be so proud (and full of yourself) that you don’t ask and don’t care about what happens to your younger siblings? Or to your parent’s retirement? Too often students are so excited that they don’t think through what the costs are to the rest of the family when the bills are so huge for that one kid. The parents may be too proud to say “we can’t afford this”, so the parents take on huge loans. Is your pride worth their poverty?</p>
<p>Don’t get me wrong. Harvard is a great college. It is also very much oversold. (Believe me, they know what they are doing when they mail out that creamy, embossed stationery inviting you to apply. Five dollars of stationery can make you pay $50 to apply, even if you don’t have any sort of chance of getting in). </p>
<p>Search for something like “Harvard + Complaints” and read about overcrowded lecture halls, cold, icy sidewalks, aloof classmates and some of the less charming aspects of that college. Then think long and hard about your other possibilities. </p>
<p>Sure, apply to Harvard. But please realize that people prostitute their lives and their family’s lives for the chance to get a stylish bumper sticker. Pride has a big, big cost.</p>