<p>The "revealed preference" survey and other similar papers say it best: the reason that the nation's best college students overwhelmingly choose Harvard if the choice is open to them is that they prefer to associate with their peers. Undoubtedly, those so motivated are those who are the most self confident and the most ambitious.</p>
<p>"Nurturing" it is not - in the sense of the dean having you up to the house for milk and cookies on Sunday night.</p>
<p>"Challenging" it is - since you will be associating with many of the nation's top students - both in the classroom and in extra curricular activities - and be exposed to some of the nation's most eminent scholars.</p>
<p>Harvard graduates are, by every measure, among the nation's most loyal and most active on behalf of their alma mater. </p>
<p>Harvard students, also, are happy with their choice - as demonstrated by the fact that a higher fraction stay to earn their degree than at any other college in the United States of America. </p>
<p>Do they ***** and moan about anything and everything - including the lack of Lucky Charms on the breakfast table? Sure. But it has ever been thus - since the first food riot in 1638, when they claimed they were being served watery beer. If they were easy to please, they wouldn't be Harvard students.</p>
<p>Nine out of 10 top students who get into Harvard and into the top LACs choose Harvard. Those who don't - and their rationalizing parents - have, for generations, been waxing poetic about the LACs allegedly smaller class sizes (they aren't) and the old canard about "classes taught by TAs at Harvard vs full professors who are all excellent teachers at LACs (neither of which is true.).</p>
<p>The top LACs have survived for generations as "second choice" schools for those who are not admitted to HYP, and they continue to serve this function well. But to rationalize that the education received - broadly described - is superior in any way is dubious - except for kids who are timid about facing challenges, scared of crowds, and more comfortable in remote, rural settings.</p>
<p>I can understand how parents such as "casualresponder" can say she and her husband went to LACs and were happy and thus are inclined to favor the same path for their son and daughter. But I respectfully urge other parents to encourage bright, ambitious offspring to aim for the top, and don't be swayed by the "ax to grind" propaganda they get from the little places.</p>
<p>It may be another fine old American tradition to take the top dog down a peg, but let's understand that instinct for what it is.</p>