<p>poetgirl,
Can you please give more detail as to how your D was “recruited” by an Ivy for her performing artist talent?
Not because my D is a performer, but because I am unaware of his process beyond sending in a Supplement for Artists.
Thanks!</p>
<p>soozie-
Not to be too damning, but you might feel a little differently if your two D’s had been rejected by tippy top schools of their choice, which could have happened, based on the crazy numbers out there. I am sure your kids are superstars and I do not imply anything other than that. It is just so hard to understand how many “superstars” are rejected. And without being sour grapes, it is natural to ask why, and wonder how things work.</p>
<p>We all know of shocking stories. My niece applied early to one Ivy, was totally in love with the school. In hindsight, should have played her athletic talent (ODP soccer) chip, but did not, so did not even try to be recruited for a spot.
Was Class Pres 2 of 4 years at a competitive admission HS in NYC. Won 2 National Science awards for ground-breaking genetics projects. Started a social service agency in Africa where she travels every summer, continuing her efforts in college. Did research with prof at another Ivy summer before Sr year. Perfect SAT’s and grades. Took multiple math and sciences courses as a senior 2-3 years ahead. Happy, up, social, too. Interviewed. Letter from Prof at other Ivy and one from the Ivy she wanted to attend.
Got deferred in early round, then rejected in the RD round.
She did get accepted at two other HYPS, Duke Honors, and attended one. </p>
<p>But the rejection just does not “make sense.” </p>
<p>Yes, we know there are too many great applicants. And that the AdComm at her EA school might have thought the fit was wrong. (I actually think the fit at the school she preferred was perfect, better than that of the school ended up at, but no matter. She will do fine. But I think she would have been happier at the Ivy that rejected her, that she showed preference for.)</p>
<p>It is just natural to try to understand all this more clearly when there are such surprises.</p>
<p>We are not stupid, just human, and just want more info!!</p>