<p>So a couple nights ago, I went into my friend's room, and he had a couple guests, although I had only never met one before. I introduced myself to her (really pretty girl, but that's aside the point) and we actually hit it off really well. Really well.</p>
<p>We ended the night alone, and she liked me a lot. I like her a lot too. So the next day I texted her and we got together again in the evening and hung out; the night was a bit more tame (not that it was too extreme before), and we just watched a movie and stuff, but it was once again a successful night, as I walked her back to her room through the rain and kissed her goodnight and everything.</p>
<p>So all is going great, right? Except one thing: I'm leaving this Thursday for winter break--I've had the flight scheduled for a long time now--which is a lot earlier than most others at my school. The reason is because I only have one final, and it's scheduled on the first day. Anway, point is I'm leaving Thursday, and many/most other students, including this girl, are going to be here for another 5-6 days.</p>
<p>Basically, this had to happen at the end of the semester instead of earlier, of course. Now what I'm worried about is that everything that's happened in the last few days will wear off over the month we'll be gone for winter break. On the other hand, it could be that the separation makes her feelings stronger.</p>
<p>Has anyone ever had something similar happen to them?</p>
<p>Look, winter break is not that long. I see what you’re saying, but like you said, I think being away could even make her feelings grow stronger. If she forgets about you (or you forget about her) then it wasn’t meant to be, so don’t worry about it.</p>
<p>But the bottom line is, winter break isn’t that long, so don’t sweat it. If you get back to school and feel awkward texting her to hang out because it’s been so long, just try to hang around that group a lot that you met her with. Then you guys are bound to start talking again.</p>
<p>@PRiNCESSMAHiNA - Already done, though I see Facebook as a bit superficial for things like this. I’m more of an in-person type of guy, as much as possible.</p>
<p>@alexandra23 - See, normally I’d probably agree with you. However, when you consider the fact that we might just a few days before I left, a month is a long time. By the end of that month, I’ll have spent about 6/7th of the time I’ve known her away from her. Furthermore, I have grown through my experiences to believe that the “meant to be” argument isn’t true when it comes to relationships; unfortunate timing should not be re-attributed as fate. Thank you for your reassuring comment, though. Hopefully you’re right when you confirm my comment on the possibility of absence helping solidify the relationship instead. haha</p>
<p>I’ll definitely keep in touch with her via Facebook or texting or something, but it just doesn’t replace physical contact. Thanks guys. haha</p>
<p>I’m also still curious to hear any other stories about similar situations–they don’t have to be that similar, just the general idea, if anybody has one.</p>
<p>If she likes you a lot, then you got the hard part over with. A month isn’t that long and if you hit it off, then she’ll probably feel the same way after christmas break.
Text her and try to keep talking, that would help.</p>
<p>Don’t worry about it. Text her if you want to over break or something but there’s no quicker way to scare off a girl than to be needy/clingy right after you meet her.</p>
<p>Something similar happened to me last winter break, and the guy still texted me after break was over. It didn’t work out with us in the end, but he definitely still remembered me after break was over and made the effort to hang out with me a lot even though I hadn’t seen him in a month and we’d only hung out a couple times before break.</p>
<p>We didn’t really text over break except at the end. Don’t be clingy, as someone mentioned, but it definitely wouldn’t be a bad idea to text her a few times over break, especially if you guys have good chemistry and you enjoy texting her.</p>