<p>OK, a few points in no particular order:</p>
<p>re: overachiever, I live in a pampered area…not so much. And as far as the comment on “babysitting money…wow”…yes, babysitting money. is that outside the norm where you live (just curious?). PT job money. People do it. My child actually pays all their school fees on their own with money earned from a PT job. people underestimate how important a PT job can be, and how much it can say about an applicant. And if you have too many activities for a 4-6 hour week job/babysitting, then maybe you’ve overloaded on activities? hit the point of diminishing return on activities? Filling out every single line of the activities section of the common app is not necessary and really, maybe not even advisable. Go deep, not broad. jobs are valuable in more ways than the pay.</p>
<p>re: another parent: seeing/travelling to one school…totally understand! essentially what our family did. he picked one, and for the others, he did everything he could to demonstrate interest. emails, online student chats held by admission office, school visits, contacted current students, showed understanding of the school beyond the website…and showed that he’d read the website and understood their expectations very, very well. you would be shocked at how the viewbook and the website don’t “feel” like the campus does in person.</p>
<p>re: manarius, i think? application fees…awful, ouch, miserable, i know. i totally agree and empathize. i can’t believe how quickly it added up. </p>
<p>re: yes, i think february CAN count IF you let them know NOW how much you are looking forward to your visit in february…write them NOW…ask for a class schedule for then…drop a note right after you visit giving your impressions and thoughts on how you’d contribute and benefit from that community.</p>
<p>re: where i work/ed…my child is applying to colleges this year (as did my daughter 2 years ago), so i am keeping that private for now. eastern school, admit rate less than 15%, that’s all i am sharing right now. if my advice is helpful please use it, but if you are wary of my advice without the school name, that’s fine, there are lots of great folks on the boards who can help.</p>