@sybbie719 you have made some wrong assumptions.
On the day of the move-in, we expected to see the roommate and we did. We didn’t unpack for the kitchen, but DD’s stuff for the kitchen was in the living room. She texted her roommate as she did not want the roommate to think she just left everything a mess when the roommate arrived. After lunch, she texted her roommate the estimated time we would be back, the roommate decided to wait for us but the roommate had to leave and did not return until 2 days ago. We met briefly but no one tried to exam everything as we did not expect someone would just take up the cabinet space. We are not angry but just thought that no one who has lived in a dorm would just take up all the cabinet space.
When we unpacked and as there was no cabinet space, DD put some of her kitchen stuff neatly on the counter and the consumables such as toilet paper, paper towel and dish detergents inside the cabinets where roommate put them.
Hence we were a little surprise when the roommate asked her for money yesterday. We already told the roommate that we were not interested in buying the decorative pillows as we think it was too much. I am not going to debate with you who is not used to dorm living.
At this time, we hope that everything will be resolved when DD returns to the dorm.