<p>^^
Dam I sense some tension here. All I am doing is expressing my opinions on this subject of discussion. If you don't agree with it, then its not my problem.</p>
<p>But to answer your question 'tisthetruth,
I flirt for only two reason:
1. To try to get a date or gf<a href="reasonable%20right?">/U</a>
2. To have alil innocent fun or be playful<a href="For%20me,%20flirting%20is%20harmless%20unless%20you%20elevate%20it%20to%20sexually%20or%20physically%20level.%20And%20by%20flirting,%20I%20mean%20teasing/%20playfully%20name-calling%20or%20hitting/giving%20out%20compliments.%20Its%20just%20being%20playful.">/U</a></p>
<p>So by my method, there are two levels of flirting (shown above): a GF/dating one and a "harmless" fun one.</p>
<p>Now lets say I got a gf, I can cross out the "trying to get a date" approach to other girls, but I still retain my harmless fun one. I won't stop giving out compliments to girls or teasing to my friends, who are girls, just because I am in a relationship. But because I have a gf, I won't use the other level of flirting (gf one) on other girls. Just the harmless one.</p>
<p>Therefore, I wont flirt as much or as aggressively. The "Gf/date" is gone on other girls. I just do alil harmless fun to other girls, but I'm not trying to make them like me. Plus I treat my girl differently than any other girls because my "Gf flirt" is more touching and stuff. </p>
<p>To answer your question 'tisthetruth, yeah certain type of flirting is only for your girl, but harmless flirting shouldn't be ban all together. And I do lessen my flirting abilities because I am in a relationship and not trying to get a new Gf or date. </p>
<p>But are you telling me that you shouldn't flirt at all because you got a girl? That doesn't make sense to me. Because there is a certain level trust in my relationship and I would never cross that line. Plus its in my personality to be playful and fun.</p>
<p>Now if you using flirting to get new girls, then its wrong. I have been saying that all along. But I believe "harmless" flirting is just harmless.</p>
<p>Now If you are willing to argue with me on my points, go ahead. I'm willing to listen and change if I agree with you :p.</p>
<p>Yeah that was long but whatever..</p>