<p>My bad about the misunderstanding 'tisthetruth, i guess I was in a hurry that day and didnt read your post well :p</p>
<p>Its kinda hard to understand your questions since you use all that type 1 and type 2. but I think I know what you are trying to say.. (correct me if Im wrong :))</p>
<p>Ok I don't know where to start but...</p>
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<li>"Harmless" flirting vs. "I want you" flirting</li>
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<p>I thought somebody here is going to answer that for me since there are lot of dudes here but instead we get a post about diabetes :p... I think there are alot of views on this post but whatever.</p>
<p>Are you a girl, 'tisthetruth? Cuz I think alot of guys know the differences between the two or maybe some ppl just flirt differently than I do.. I guess the latter is it.</p>
<p>-First "Harmless" Flirting is being playful around a girl or just having some innocent fun. Its like teasing or playfully making fun of each other. It involves touching but not intense i guess. You are just having fun and laughing. Just imagine the typical guys hanging out with their friends who are girls (I think thats best example at least for me) I mean you dont see the same interactions between guys with their guys friends.</p>
<p>-Second, "I want you" Flirting is whole another level. Your whole body language is just telling the girl that you want her and you want to date her. Some guys are shy though but others are aggressive. For me, it usually involves a different kind of attention toward the girl..like physical- holding hands, rubbing the girl's thigh, arm around her shoulder, or saying stuff sexually or physically or holding her face. But I only do this to girls that I'm really interested in when I first meet them. Look I don't this to every girl, and my friends go even more aggressively than I :(. For me I have few gf. I find dating or getting a date is easy, but finding that right girl and wanting to be with her are very difficult. Also, "I want you" flirting is like 85% body language, and your conversation with her could be completely meaningless but just don't say something stupid. finally, Its like telling the girl you "want her"</p>
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<li>Do I limit my type 2 or harmless flirting when I have a gf? </li>
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<p>-by Type 2 i guess you mean "harmless flirting".. So my answer is no :p. "Harmless" is just harmless. like you said, I just eliminate my type 1 to other girls.</p>
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<li>Do I do type 2 (harmless) in front of my girl? </li>
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<p>-To me, Trust is the number one thing in a relationship. All my gfs know that I am trustworthy and would never dare to cheat on them. Plus they know from my reputation that I'm a playful dude and trust is key for me. So yeah I do it in front of my girl. They don't really care, but I bet at times it bothers them alil bit. It never elevates to a fight though. They just know thatbeing my playful is my personality. Oh yeah, I look for the same quality in a girl too plus I just don't jump into relationship.</p>
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<li>To that dude who posted after 'tisthetruth..</li>
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<p>-I trust my girl so its not a prob. Plus I try to find a girl who believes the same thing.</p>
<p>Thats all from me on your questions tis, and sorry about the misunderstanding... i am not an expert on flirting so if you keep asking questions cuz you are curious, then i dunno. But you just have to find the type of flirting that fits you. For me, its alil aggressive i guess. </p>
<p>Oh yeah, Confidence and Humor are key when you are trying to attract a girl.</p>
<p>Finally, if you are flirting so that you can cheat or find a new gf, then Its Wrong. </p>
<p>That was long too. I guess I'm just bored this morning :p</p>