<p>I think that mentoring at Ivies can be exceptional, especially in a smaller department like music.</p>
<p>It sounds to me like Oberlin and Bard might be out because they are more rural, though Cleveland and NYC are not far away. I do know one student, who graduated two years ago, who went to Bard instead of Columbia for biology and music composition, and she was very happy. While we visited Oberlin, the tour guide surprised us by describing the strength of sciences there. I really hope you will research the details of academics at these schools. </p>
<p>Hunt knows a lot about Yale’s composition because, as mentioned, Hunt’s son goes there. I cannot think of any parent who has been on here with a son or daughter at Columbia for composition, but I do know the grad program is excellent. Manhattan School of Music is right across the street, and Juilliard easy to get to as well. Many students interested in composition go to Yale and, of course, physics would be excellent there. NYC is not too far, but essentially the same kind of trip to a city that Oberlin and Bard would involve to their respective cities.</p>
<p>If you want a really strong “alternative” or artsy vibe, then Oberlin and Bard would certainly appeal. Have you visited? Sometimes just sitting somewhere and observing, whether a green or a dining hall or a bookstore, helps. And attending concerts of student composers if at all possible. Yale is considered an artsy Ivy.</p>
<p>Ivies tend to be very diverse in every way. There is no way they could or should be characterized as “snooty.” They are different than small liberal arts colleges in many ways: for instance, grad students often teach sections that accompany professors’ lectures. Financial aid is strong and brings in some students from less well-off backgrounds but there are also students of wealth. It’s a mixed bag and you can find “your people.” The house system at Yale has a lot of advantages: I don’t know what Columbia does in this regard.</p>
<p>Yale has considerable distribution requirements. I haven’t checked Columbia. Make sure that the two areas of study that you want to do, fit in a 4 year schedule if that is what you want to do. Alternatively, both Bard and Oberlin offer 5 year double degrees.</p>
<p>This is a huge decision. You have done very very well with your acceptances. I am sure you are putting in a lot of time researching these schools and wish you luck with your decision.</p>
<p>My computer is dying or I would look up Columbia to see how it does things for undergrads. Right now I will be lucky if anything happens when I press “submit”! Good luck!</p>