Help Choosing Colleges

Hey, I’ve been having some trouble narrowing down my college list to a manageable amount of schools. I’d like advice about what schools you think would and would not fit me, and/or about what I can do to narrow down a list. I can give more info or provide clarification if anyone wants. Thanks in advance to anyone who replies.

Background on me:
Academics) I was a straight-A student until my junior year, when depression hit me hard, and I got a lot of B’s and a couple C’s. My gpa’s around 3.7, I think, and I expect to do well in the first semester of senior year. My ACT’s a 32, by SAT’s pretty good, I can’t remember exactly what- certainly above 2000-, and I’m still waiting for my subject test scores. I’ve taken a lot of AP’s, including World History (4) in my sophomore year, Chemistry (3), Calc AB (5), Micro (4), Lang (3), Physics 1 (3 on the physics C mech test), US Gov (5) in my junior year, and, now, Bio, Calc BC, Lit, Euro, and Macro. I can write well.
Other) I love thinking and learning, but I don’t care much for school and for grades in and of themselves. I love listening, playing, and writing music. I read a lot, and I write. I’m not very social or athletic.

What I’m looking for (note that I don’t need all of these things in one school; these are just my preferences):

  1. I’ve got a pretty wide variety of interests, so I’m primarily looking for schools that are at least decent for a wide variety of subjects, although cognitive science, philosophy, and physics are most important to me right now.
  2. I don’t care much about reputation, outside of what that indicates about the school’s quality of education.
  3. Among the most important things to me is being able to find people I get along well with, and to that effect, I’m looking for schools with intellectual but unpretentious, preferably easy-going atmospheres/students; with good music scenes; with social scenes that put little importance on partying and sports.
  4. As far as the actual education, aside from looking for “quality,” in general, I’d prefer schools that have a lot of teacher-student interaction, for which discussions are a major part of most classes, that have relatively small class sizes, in which a lot of emphasis is placed on critical thinking and writing, and in which actual learning matters more than grades or preparation for a career.
  5. For size and location, I don’t care much about the size of the city/town, and I’d prefer schools that are in the pacific northwest (a place I love), Colorado, or the Midwest (near home), but I’d be fine with schools in New England or Cali- really, I just don’t want to go to the South, or anywhere that’s very conservative.
  6. I’m an atheist, and consequently, I don’t want to go anywhere with a religious affiliation, and I’d prefer to go somewhere that’s relatively areligious.

I’ve got a few schools that I’m pretty confident I want to apply to, including Reed, Sarah Lawrence, Hampshire, Bard, Grinnell, UW Madison, and UMN Twin Cities. Then, I’ve got a pretty big list of schools I’m considering applying to, over twenty in number. If it helps, I can post the list.

Yes, post the list.

Can you afford these schools?

Well, I think I’ve got about $40,000 saved for college as of now, so I’d need financial aid if I were to go to any of the private schools.

Wesleyan U
Brandeis
Brown
Oberlin
Colorado
CWRU
Swarthmore
Clark U
JHU
UIUC
WUStL
UChicago
Pitzer
Pomona
Williams
Amherst
Bennington
Lewis And Clark
The Evergreen State
CU Boulder
UM Ann-Arbor
UW Seattle
Macalester
GWU
Whitman
St john’s college

You have approximately $10,000 a yr for a 4 yr degree? Many of the private schools will be around 70k when you go. That means you need around $60,000 a yr in financial need. Have you done the NPCs? That should tell you if any of these will be affordable for you. Those that aren’t have to be dropped from the list

You have a duffel bag full of reaches – Amherst, Brown, Chicago, Colorado C, JHU, Pitzer, Pomona, Swarthmore, WUSL, Williams – you will eventually want perhaps 2-3 reaches.

Brandeis has a sizable Jewish population, which may or may not be a concern.

Bennington, CWRU, GWU, Lewis And Clark, Sarah Lawrence will likely be too expensive as they do not meet 100% need and I doubt your stats will fetch enough merit to bridge the gap. Whitman could be doable if you got lucky with merit, but don’t hold your breath.

CU Boulder, Evergreen State, UIUC, UM Ann-Arbor, UMN Twin Cities, UW Seattle, UW Madison: the out-of-state publics will probably prove too expensive.

Grinnell, Macalester, Oberlin, Wesleyan are similarly selective so you might want to choose only the best fitting two in order to stratify your odds better. Run the Net Price Calculators (NPC). Narrow the fit.

Clark U might be doable financially with some merit aid. Not sure about merit at Bard or St. John’s College, but you will need it. Hampshire looks like a good fit pending merit aid. Reed seems a great fit.

You need fin aid, yes, but the question is whether your Expected Family Contribution (EFC) will be $10,000 or less (based on family income/assets). If so, the 100% need met schools should be ok. If more than $10,000 is expected of you, you will require merit aid even at the 100% need met schools, some of which do not offer merit aid.

Get a spreadsheet going. Run the NPCs, assess your potential for merit, and let the great cull begin. If you require significant merit aid as per above, a huge portion of your list is destined for the scrap heap.

Another fly in the ointment is that highly selective LACS don’t take a lot of transfer students because their retention rates are so high, and the acceptance percentages for transfers may be even lower than for freshmen at places like Amherst and Williams. On top of that, they are often less generous with financial aid. It’s fine to try some reaches, but also line up SEVERAL good schools with less competitive admissions and better chances for financial aid.

I’d disagree that Grinnell, Macalester, Oberlin, Wesleyan are “similarly selective.” I think they attract similar students, but there are some overall differences (admit rates in low 20s vs. high 30s), and for kids from the Northeast, Wesleyan is much harder to get into than the Midwestern colleges. But for this particular search, affordability is key, and that may be a challenge with all of them.