Hi everyone. I’m facing quite a bit of dilemma here (albeit a good one) that’s been getting me really stressed out. I’ve been fortunate enough to have been accepted by UCB, Cornell, and WUSTL and can’t really decide which one to commit to. I’m currently a cognitive science major at Berkeley, a Psychology major at Cornell, and a Psychology, Neuroscience and Philosophy major at WUSTL – all of this subject to change, I really am not set on a major, just had to put one down for the app process.
I’ve read up MANY, MANY of these comparison threads between these 3 schools and many of them focus on the premed programs at each of them. Though I’m undecided, I’m very unlikely to go into premed and I do have interests in english, computer science, and psychology/cognitive science.
I’m currently leaning toward Cornell but I’m still so torn about my decision because of all the bad press surrounding it. I’ve just returned from a visit from Cornell, and honestly, I’m a little ambivalent about the whole experience. Don’t get me wrong, from what I saw, I thought Cornell was absolutely fine, cheery even. But the whole time I had all of the bad things I’ve heard about it in the back of my head like the cutthroat competition, the severe weather, the insane difficulty of classes – all these things I couldn’t really “experience” in my visit.
I’m visiting WUSTL later this week and won’t have a good hold on the school until I do, but of what I know it’s supposedly got great student satisfaction. I’m a little apprehensive because everyone praises WUSTL so much that I’m not entirely sure whether or not to believe it - do they really love it or are they just jumping on the band wagon? It’s like the extreme contrast of Cornell, where everyone is bashing it. I also do not want to go into pre-med or business but that seems to be all that WUSTL is praised for.
For the time being, I’ve ruled out Berkeley, but if someone can make a compelling argument for me to reconsider it, I will. I’m from the Bay Area and have lived here my entire life, so going to school so close to home sounds really unappealing to me. No matter where I go, I’d ideally like a change of scenery in terms of weather and culture. I visited Cal, and found it to be quite alright, I don’t think I would mind going there for 4 years (or longer…) but it just feels too “comfortable.” The mix of "diversity"in which Asians have become the majority doesn’t help either. I myself am an Asian American and I’ve been surrounded by this scene of heavy Asian influence all my life. I’ve heard from a friend’s sister that many Asian Americans go through an identity crisis entering Cal and would really like to discover myself some place else.
For all these schools, money really isn’t an issue but I do feel a little guilty spending more of my parents’ money on an private school education when one can be obtained for much cheaper at Cal. Though the academics of all the schools are comparable, I guess what I’m looking at is the undergrad experience as a whole.
Also I know that it’s not good to caught up in prestige but I can’t help but do so… I think one of the reasons I’m so stuck on Cornell is that it does carry that Ivy status (but at the same time I know it gets a lot of hate for being the “worst” Ivy). At the same time, coming from a school in California which has received 20-30 offers of admissions to Cal per class of 500 for the last two years to Berkeley (and 60-70+ in years prior), Berkeley really doesn’t seem that prestigious. In fact when I visited and talked to many of the students there, it sounded like Cal was an Ivy-reject school for them. WUSTL, though it ranks higher than these other two on the US News and Report charts (though I realize I have to take it with a grain of salt), doesn’t carry the same prestige that Cornell or UCB would in my mind and for this reason I’m a little apprehensive about choosing it because I feel it may limit my future career plans.
– I was also wait listed at Medill- Northwestern’s school of journalism. In the chance that I do get off that wait list, should I consider it over these other three schools? I’m in the college of Arts & Sciences/Letters & Sciences for each of the above schools.
I’m interested in hearing all your opinions and thanks in advance!