I know I’m jumping into this thread a little late, but I live in VA and have lots of insight to share! Congrats on the 30 ACT score, that’s impressive!
I would highly recommend JMU. As someone who has lived in VA for my entire life, I have never heard anything negative about JMU. Everyone who goes there loves it and is extremely successful and well rounded after college. It’s a beautiful campus, too. Some family friends’ kids were upset about not getting into UVA but ended up loving JMU more than they could imagine, even after going into it with bad attitudes. Student life/school spirit is great. Additionally, tuition at JMU is fairly cheap, which is why it attracts so many out of state students. From what I’ve heard, a lot of northerners attend. I think this year the total OOS tuition was around 38,000, which isn’t too bad considering other schools.
While you’re in VA, I would recommend looking at Virginia Tech, too. Again, everyone who goes there loves it and the school spirit is wonderful. Another family friends’ daughter was conflicted because she wanted to go North for school, but VT ended up being the perfect atmosphere - not too southern but great sports and school spirit. Not sure about tuition there but it would probably be a bit higher than JMU.
I know several people who wound up at West Virginia University, including a close family friend’s son, and loved it! It’s definitely considered a party school, but still has a great reputation for producing hard working, intelligent grads. It’s also easier to get into, so merit money would be more likely. Great football and student life. Never visited, but from what I’ve heard it’s very pleasant and beautiful.
Another good VA school is George Mason University in northern VA. It’s a pretty big school with about 30,000 students. I don’t personally know anyone there, but apparently it’s very popular with out of state northerners. With an acceptance rate around 70%, it seems like a good option for merit aid, too. Again, I can’t really speak on behalf of it since I really don’t know much, but it’s worth looking into.
Side note, I really love Elon! Visited last year and it’s worth looking into even if you don’t think you’ll get merit.
Let me know if you have any questions about VA schools. Good luck!