<p>Whew! </p>
<p>Thank you for the thoughtful posts and PMs. I’ll reply to the PMs individually, eventually. But thank you, CC.</p>
<p>I knew it was a risk posting about a struggling student amongst such a large community of honors/gifted families, but I think the risk paid off. Your ideas and links will be helpful. </p>
<p>DS was not Crimson Edge (the program for entering freshman with at least one major flaw on the record). Although his class rank in our prep high school was quite low, his ACT 26 placed him comfortably in the middle 50% of the student population. </p>
<p>I’m trying to approach this with as much optimism as I can muster. I was honors at U of Illinois Urbana Champaign and had a disastrous freshman year, ending up on probation. I don’t remember getting off probation with the help from my parents – it was my problem to solve, or not. I made several changes, climbed out of the hole I dug for myself, graduated, and ended up with a reasonably successful career. (As you might expect, here in Huntsvegas we’re surrounded by brilliant engineers, scientists, and professionals – many of them work for me.) </p>
<p>Despite the horrific grades, and even considering the “full-retail” price tag, we’re going to try one more semester – with several updates to our contract:</p>
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<li> Tell your roommates. They may be able to help, and they deserve to know either way.</li>
<li> Meet with your A&S Advisor in the first week to find out what grades are needed to continue beyond this spring.</li>
<li> Meet with somebody in CAS ([Center</a> for Academic Success - The University of Alabama](<a href=“http://www.ctl.ua.edu/default.asp]Center”>http://www.ctl.ua.edu/default.asp)) to talk about last semester and plan for success this semester.</li>
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<p>Other than that, I’ll just encourage him to take care of Body, Mind, and Spirit.</p>
<p>Let’s see, other odds and ends from previous posts and questions:</p>
<p>– He has been screened for various mental, physical, and social conditions and challenges (privacy, please.)</p>
<p>– Although he has good ACT scores, high school was tough (see my posts to other threads for some details if you’re curious).</p>
<p>– No GF.</p>
<p>That’s it. I’m happy to continue to discuss DS, but I’d actually rather read posts about experiences and success stories from others. </p>
<p>Can an RA help with this sort of thing? Are there reputable college “life coaches” at CAS, other departments, or in Tuscaloosa proper?</p>