So I am a senior and currently I am enrolled in AP Biology. Thing is I feel like I made a mistake. I don’t want to get into the details, but I’m just not into Biology like I thought I would be. I found out I’m more mathematically inclined. I sent an application to change from AP Bio to AP Physics C on Thursday and they haven’t responded. I then asked my mom to send them an email asking to change my classes on Friday and they still didn’t respond. Schedule changes are made based on class availability! I mean how many people could be taking AP Physics C??? I am completely freaking out because we have work and a possible test in AP Bio soon and I’m not sure what to do. They say that if your schedule hasn’t changed in 2 weeks, you didn’t get it changed which I think is stupid that they give you no notice beforehand!
really…
Not be rude, please don’t throw around mental illnesses around. If you wouldn’t throw ‘cancer’ around anyhow, don’t do the same for depression. It’s very insensitive.
Secondly, give it some time for the application to be reviewed. That may be one of the reasons, others including a) you don’t meet the co and/or pre-requisite, b) the class(es) are currently full and/or c) there’s a lot of paperwork involved in switching a students class and the have to discuss it with you.
You said this:
But said earlier this:
Are you dropping the class because of work or because of a lack of interest? I would re-evaluate why you want to drop this class.
Use “@” and then a person’s username to mention them in the comment, like this:
@alabmkavam
Depression is a serious mental illness and the word shouldn’t be thrown around. I’m sure it’s gaining your post a lot more attention than it would have if you said, “I need help,” though.
@alabmkavam As a person who has struggled with depression for a great part of my high school life, I am honestly offended by the way you worded your title.
^ @michelle426
Others have made my first point, so I’ll move on to my second.
I’m sure you’re right-- not too many people in your school are probably lined up to move to AP Physics C. So why all the drama?
On the other hand, I’m guessing that several hundred probably want SOME sort of a change. And to the people making the change, all are equally important. That incoming ninth grader who wants chorus instead of art is every bit as concerned.
Speaking of concerned: I’ve got to ask why someone old enough to take AP Physics C asked his MOM to call and make the change?? Is she going to do the same thing one year from now when you don’t like your roommate??
A suggestion: on Monday morning, why not go to guidance and ask to make an appointment with your guidance counselor and get this taken care of? And leave the drama behind.
@michelle426
@Earthlingo
Listen, you guys really don’t understand. I’ve been struggling with manic depression for most of my life. I was at a really high point in terms of emotions and even the slightest thing can ruin me at that point. You may have thought I was messing around, but I am actually depressed. It’s not just the class, but a culmination of my life crashing before me because other things have gone my way. I could only find some form of solace in class change.
I guess I worded it wrong but what I was saying was that if I fail this test, that grade will be transferred to Physics C which is why I’m panicking. I have no problem with the work. I just don’t want to set my mind on Physics, fail my Bio test, and have that affect my grade in whichever class I get.
And I do have the pre-reqs covered.
My mom doesn’t do everything for me. The school just responds faster when your mother or guardians asks about it. And yes, I was gonna go to my guidance counselor, but they’re being weird and not accepting meetings for this week and the last.
*haven’t gone my way recently.
@alabmkavam You did not mention depression anywhere in your post. All you do is ask about a situation in which you want to change your schedule. A more appropriate title should have been something along the lines of “Scheduling help/problems”. When you say you are getting depressed, I thought you were going through some type of crisis (I’m trying really hard not to swear here) like the death of a family member or suicidal thoughts. I understand what the intent of your post was, but the title is all wrong.
I think it’s disrespectful that you decided it would be a good idea to throw the word ‘depression’ around. I’ve known several friends that suffered because of it. If you’re this immature, I don’t even think you should be in an AP class. Seriously…just reading your post shows me that you don’t act your age. Not getting into the class you want isn’t making you depressed/suicidal, so please stop. Your counselors are very busy at this time and probably haven’t been able to answer you. I would’ve went into the office and scheduled an appointment the first day back. Also, talk to your teacher about dropping the class and listen to their input. It’s only been two days! You aren’t any more special than all the other kids at your school. Wait your turn. Honestly, I can’t imagine what you will do when you leave for college next year. I don’t think you can have your mom e-mail the professor because you were sick the day of a major test. Smh. Posts like yours reduce the credibility of someone who is actually struggling and take away one of their options for help. :-L
@alabmkavam To answer your original question:
If it’s really true that counselors respond faster to parents and guardians, then you made the right move here. But wait your turn here. Every high school counselor (bless their hearts) in America is flooded with requests right now. Wait it out. If you don’t get a response within a week of sending your email, go into your counselor’s office, if possible, and schedule a face to face meeting. If possible, just go straight in for a walk in meeting. If that’s not possible, go and talk to your AP Bio teacher or the AP Physics teacher to see if they can hustle things a little bit.
I’m not seeing what a scheduling conflict with your high school has to do with depression. Is it just me?
I am going to assume the best (shocking, I know) and believe this despite my doubts. If this is true, then why not explain it more in the description? Or leave it out of the question and just state it in the description? Putting it in the question with a questionable title “I Think I am Getting Depressed” makes it seem like you are joking and aren’t serious at all (for someone who claims to have depression should know it is), and for people who are depressed and have gone through bouts of depression (myself included- it’s personal) makes it seem like the state can be thrown around like some cheap joke or isn’t “a big deal”.
That being said, I am sorry for how you are feeling. However, you need to wait some time for the counselors to answer. It’s been two days and there are mostly likely several people ahead of you and they will check your request as soon as they can. Please be patient.
Lots of things work better if you raise a little hell. It doesn’t mean it’s the correct or appropriate approach.
You’re a high school senior taking college level coursework. So YOU take care of it tomorrow morning, not your mom. This isn’t about a blood transfusion, it’s about changing the course YOU signed up for for one you NOW decide you want better.
If your mental health issues really are as serious as you say, I hope you’re giving them some serious thought as you approach college. Check with your mental health professional, and make sure that you’re not looking at schools so competitive that you’ll sacrifice whatever gains you’ve made in terms of your health. Talk to your doctor about how far from home you should be, what levels of support you should be looking for in a school, and how competitive an environment he/she feels is safest for you.