@ClarinetDad16 Not sure where you got that idea.
It’s interesting how we each interpret things the way we want to see it. I see that a lot of posters children are doing what my D is doing…nothing wrong with it! And I do not make decisions for my daughter (again - not sure where you got that idea!).
I must say that I have learned a lot from this thread. I really don’t think that it is too much stuff - as others have brought more to their dorm.
We are not minimalist-type packers - nor are we hoarders!
I am also not packing for a vacation - so that train of thought doesn’t make sense to me. On vacation I don’t want to lug every item I own! But if I am moving - then YES - everything plus the kitchen sink sounds right!
She would NEVER encroach on her roomies side -so if she doesn’t have enough room we will just bring it back. No biggie.
I want my child to feel comfortable in her new home away from home. And if that means taking a lot of stuff…so be it!