<p>Im a college freshman at purdue doing electrical engineering. There are tons of indian guys here and only a few hot indian girls, most of which are probably taken. There's this 1 girl who has been eyeing me all year, not a lot but enough to get my attention. I've looked back but I haven't spoken to her yet. She's usually around another guy, and I don't think she's single. On a scale of 1-10 she's a 10. She's been in my 400 person physics lecture this whole semester, I'm thinking of sitting next to her this week. This girl is one of the few from my hometown in India that is a 10. </p>
<p>So I was wondering, how would this sound; I sit next to her, say hi, my name, ask her who she is, say nice to meet you etc. ask her where shes from, her major, tell her mine etc. say i've tried talking to you telepathically all year but I guess you didn't hear me! Idk just wondering if you guys had any thoughts. I'm horrible at doing this sober, if I was drunk at a frat I could do it so easily, but she isn't the party type. Thoughts? Thanks so much </p>
<p>Btw, can this apply to any person in general? I wouldn't mind being friends with this girl, but would asking for lunch right after lecture the day I meet her coming off as too interested? Or asking her to play tennis or go running sometime the same day?</p>
<p>Don't do the 'where are you from whats your major' crap..it's almost as bad as asking A/S/L online. Just introduce yourself and ask her if she wants to hang out later.</p>
<p>Yes, ask her to lunch right away. The only difference between becoming a "potential boyfriend" and a "guy friend" is how you meet -- if you start off as a "guy friend," it's more likely it'll stay that way.</p>
<p>Don't ask her all of those questions. Just sit by her and say hi and introduce yourself and chill. Talk to her like you would any other pal. And ask her if she wants to eat lunch or something.</p>
<p>If she liked you, then she would like the telepathy thing. That's cute.</p>
<p>But if she doesn't like you, she may or may not like it. I'm not a dude, so I don't know if it works. LoL, I know that doesn't make sense, but a girl can't say what lines work and what lines don't exactly because girls aren't trying to pick up girls in general.</p>
<p>Kay, so good luck.</p>
<p>And if that doesn't work, maybe you should try talking to some white girls or pacific islanders? You indians...</p>
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<p>So is it ok to do this during lunch?</p>
<p>I'm just really horrible at doing this sober. I've hooked up a few times drunk during college, but I am just a loser when it comes to picking up girls for the purpose of going out with em. I'd have no problem sitting next to this girl to be her friend if that's what I wanted, but it's not.</p>
<p>That's cute. You should definitely talk to her! Yeah, i agree with not using any corny pick-up lines, but just talk normally! If she's been eyeing you for a yr, and she really does like you, she's probably been waiting for ages for you to talk to her. So be confident and good luck! </p>
<p>Btw, do guys really rank girls with each other? in terms of what? face? body? personality?</p>