<p>There are so many schools that would probably be great for your son. It's true that his gpa is low for UM, but that can change. He has several more report cards before applying ... and I "think" UM looks more at later grades (don't yell if that's wrong ... it's just what I heard). Plus, he gets extra bonus points in UM's formula for having UM alum parents. He may not want such a big school, though. In that case, you'll want to check out some middle sized & some smaller schools. I don't know where you live ... you said you're OOS for UM, so you may not know the smaller schools I was going to suggest (Albion, Alma, Hope). But there are just SO many possibilities! Start by trying to figure out what he likes ... what kind of an environment makes him happy? For example, my S likes metal music. He wouldn't care if there were lots of kids who don't like metal ... but he WOULD care if it was considered weird to like it. Your S likes football ... does he want to play? Would he want to be at a school that has a lot of guys who played in high school? Would he want a school where football is a pretty well-attended sport? Academically ... would he want to slip quietly into the lecture hall & not be asked questions by the prof? Would he rather have lots of professor-student interaction in class? If he wants to participate, would he be uncomfortable if the norm for students was to contribute as little as possible in class? Does he want an intellectual environment, or would he rather challenge himself in the classroom while telling stupid jokes with his buddies? And location ... city, rural, suburban? Big campus, small campus? North, south, east west, midwest? Does he like to snowboard, or to waterski, or to surf? </p>
<p>As you can see, there is much to consider. But the "considering" should come first, so you can help him narrow down his choices. There really are so many great, great schools for a strong student like your son. Try to figure out what he wants (to the extent that can be done!), and then check out websites.</p>
<p>I will share with you what happened with my D, who is currently a college freshman. When she was your S's age, she was sure she wanted to go to HYP or some ultra-selective LAC in the east. After she looked into them, she decided they really weren't for her (she looked at websites, did some myspace searches, looked through the info they sent, and went to admissions receptions in our area). She eventually decided on small schools, most --- but not all --- in the south, with strong student profiles & merit opportunities. She did not have a clear favorite when May 1 came, and she really agonized about her decision. She decided on a southern LAC with 2800 students, and she has enjoyed it. However, her career goals have changed & she plans on changing schools in order to pursue some opportunities not available at her current school. So ... they can agonize & choose carefully ... and it still might not be the "right" choice. That's okay, though, because life rarely comes neatly wrapped with a big bow!</p>