@elena3142 - You sound like my son, who could not get excited about any one school. We did a lot of visits, and each time, as we were driving away, his attitude was… meh. It seems like he found something wrong with every school. But one day we visited a school I suggested, but he was not too enthused about. And from the moment we got out of the car, his body language showed that he had found his place in the world.
Now, such a school will vary from person to person. That’s why I’m not suggesting a specific school. But I am saying VISIT. You may find that when you experience one of those ‘meh’ schools on your list that you fall in love with it.
AS MANY VISITS AS YOU CAN, once you have your list narrowed a bit.