Help me stop doubting the college I've chosen!

<p>I consider myself very lucky - Of the four schools I applied to, I was accepted to all of them before December. One of them, as you may have surmised, was an Early Decision school. For the last four months, I have, for the most part, happily accepted my fate and my good fortune.</p>

<p>But sometimes, I wonder if it will live up to its expectations. I worry that I don't know enough about the school, that the winters will be too bitter, or the people too cold. All four of the schools I was accepted to, I would have been proud to attend. However, one is the school that my boyfriend currently attends (we've spent the last year long-distance, and I could have gone to school with him in the fall); another is an hour away. The location of my ED school promises that we will stay long-distance for the next four years.</p>

<p>At the same time, I've watched all my friends go through regular decision, and get into excellent schools as well. I can't help but wonder what options might have been available to me (even better schools, maybe merit money) if I hadn't done ED, even though this was something I talked myself through before I decided to apply.</p>

<p>To be fair, I don't have these doubts constantly. Whenever I get mail from my school, I look at the return address and it feels good to know I'll one day call it my alma mater. My boyfriend and I have always agreed that we have to do what is best for ourselves personally, and as for the "other options," I try to tell myself that in a regular decision round, it may very well have been that I wouldn't have gotten into any of those schools and not even my ED. I guess I'm just looking for some advice to end these doubts once and for all - or at least hear that it's not just me going through them.</p>

<p>Thanks!</p>

<p>Virtually everyone goes through doubts after making a big decision. My advice is to concentrate on the good things about your ED school. Don't dwell on what may have been. That never will be, and for all you know, it may have been a worse option than what you have.</p>

<p>Buyer's regret is normal. Don't worry about it--it'll go away. =)</p>

<p>Has anyone ever felt this about their ED school? Or is everyone just that in love with their first choice? I feel so guilty about this.</p>

<p>Don't worry, man. You went ED for a reason. Focus on the reasons why you decided to go ED and don't obsess about any problems that you might develop with it.</p>