<p>There is a girl who'd like to room with me and she's a pretty good friend of mine. The thing is, she has a ton of drama revolving around her and she's very...flirty? Like in front of guys she'll be like "OMG!!!! -slaps arm- you're so mean!!!", you can probably picture her haha. Because of that she is the center of a lot of drama/rumors/etc. I was just wondering if it's a good idea to room with her. I'm definitely not close to a lot of people at school and other than her I don't think I'll find another room mate that I know. I'd really prefer to room with someone I am already friends with instead of a stranger so I'm unsure what to do. She wants to apply for housing asap and I've already said yes, but I don't want to be caught up in her drama (she has <em>a lot</em>). I do like her and all, and we get along fine but I don't know if we end up living together 24/7 I will get annoyed or something...I'm a fairly neutral person so...yeah...</p>
<p>You really want someone to be bringing in a negative vibe and constant drama to a place that you’ll be living in for a year? Imagine studying for mid-terms/finals with someone like that.</p>
<p>You really shouldnt room with her. rooming with a stranger is better than rooming with a friend, what if you two get in a fight? then there is no room to air it out. ANd if she is “flirty” your probably insinuating that she is promiscious. Who wants a roomate who drags in with/without boys late at night?
Plus, if you dont know anybody you cant meet someone knew by having a roomate. And if your new roomate does something wrong, you wont feel as bad confronting it as if it were your friend.
Good luck either way.</p>
<p>DON’T ROOM WITH HER. The last thing you need to deal with at college is another person’s drama. Plus, rooming with randos is IMO the best way to make really good friends.</p>