Lots of good links on the thread above. Read them…and then look at each college website to verify that this information still applies.
If going to a $60,000 a year college is your goal, then you need to know that you could end up paying $60,000 a year to attend. Run the net price calculators for those schools using accurate financials for your parents.
If you already KNOW that you will receive little to no need based financial aid, then how would you pay $60,000 plus per year for a college that gives NO merit aid?
You also need to understand that your parent choice to help others is just that…a choice. The colleges will still view that money as parent income or assets when computing your need based aid.
Are you a U.S. citizen or green card holder?
ETA…here are your stats per another thread…with a question about safety schools. Schools are only safety schools if you have a very high chance of acceptance AND can afford to attend.