Help with app and resident forms?

<p>I'm not exactly international (living in the US) but I still have a bunch of questions: </p>

<p>Chinese first generation immigrant.
Moved here.....10/somedate/1994
Now a permanent resident.</p>

<p>Here's the evil form i'm trying to fill out: <a href="http://www.admissions.unc.edu/pdf/n...upplem_form.pdf%5B/url%5D"&gt;http://www.admissions.unc.edu/pdf/n...upplem_form.pdf&lt;/a> i hope the link shows up</p>

<p>So i'm wondering (pictures or links to useful pictures and diagrams would be helpful pleaseandthankyou):
If i have a visa- yes, i think. i have a thingy in my passport that says visa. So i'm assuming yes
What my Visa # is- there's a red # on my visa, a red # all over pages in my passport, and a control #. Which number do I use?
What is an Alien Registration Reciept Card (I-551)?- is this the reciept that they gave me w/ my.....permanent resident card?
What is Form I-181 (Memorandum of Creation of Record of Lawful Permanent Residence)?- okay.....they lost me at "memorandum"
What is a Parole Edition Form I-94 (Arrival-Departure Record)?
Is there a difference between Miss and Ms.? The form thinks there is.</p>

<p>Ha, at least i know i'm not a refugee. That this moment, that appears to be all I know...</p>

<p>Please answer any of my questions that you are able to and i'll be eternally grateful.</p>