<p>Hope Benel does’t mind that I am bringing her post over here, perhaps it will be helpful to others.
This is from the " the B+ student thread" …</p>
<p>Another college success story about the “B - B+” student </p>
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<p>Our S is a diamond in the rough (3.2 GPA at small private parochial HS, 1160 SAT) and he also applied to 16 schools, not knowing what to expect.</p>
<p>So far he has been accepted to 6 (1 public, 5 private), rejected at 1 (private), waiting on the others.</p>
<p>Here are my “lessons learned”:</p>
<p>1) There are some FANTASTIC options for the B - B+ students!</p>
<p>2) Take the attitude that your S or D is a treasure that any school would be delighted to have, and venture into interviews that way.</p>
<p>3) My S (and your S or D too, probably) is lagging in his development, and his upward curve really just started Junior year.</p>
<p>4) I would rather be challenged with helping him finding the “right fit” than scraping him off the floor because he didn’t get in to a brand-name reach college. Just read 80% of CC posts and breath a sigh of relief! Finding the right fit is an absolutely doable challenge!</p>
<p>5) Let your S or D follow their intuition when you visit colleges - have them talk with students. They will get a feel for “nurturing” and collaborative environment vs. competitive/grade-grubbing.</p>
<p>6) Make sure your S or D’s unique personality and character comes through. One great piece of advice we got from a U Penn counselor (my S did not apply there, the guy was just visiting our school) was this: your EC’s should demonstrate you are WELL-ANGLED, not well-rounded. i.e. what’s your overarching passion.</p>
<p>7) Read the first couple chapters of Colleges That Change Lives, it is eye-opening!</p>
<p>8) Look at the US News “A+ Options for B Students” - huge list to start with!</p>
<p>9) Don’t be discouraged by being in the lower end of a college’s “range” when it comes to scores, GPA and especially class rank. Look at the US News and notice that for many colleges less than 50% of applicants submit class rank, and many colleges have SAT optional.</p>
<p>One more thing: My S’s friends look up to him as the opinion leader in their group.
And they are all the A students! He is definitely an independent thinker, creative and trailblazer. Bet yours is too!</p>
<p>Good luck and have fun!</p>