<p>Hi I am new to the threads and have been reading some information that has been helpful. However, I now desperately need advice.</p>
<p>My D will be going to college in 2010. After many good and bad years and netting out the financial crisis losses to our mutual fund we have about 30K cash to apply towards college. Not a lot but we took a hit. We both work and have a household income of $160K, about $30K from my husbands retirement income but he works a full time job. We live in a very high cost of living state, so this salary standard middle class here. </p>
<p>We own a home and also own a small rental apartment in another state, both have equity, but we are also still paying mortgages on them. Our goal was to sell the rental after college to help pay off any outstanding loans. Prior to this, we owned a business which supplemented our income but that has been shut down due to the economy, there are no more clients.</p>
<p>Yesterday, husband confessed that he has outstanding debt of 65K, that he has secretly kept from me, due to the residual overhead from the closing of the business. After the almost heart attack, I realize our financial position is changed drastically. A large portion was taken from our universal life insurance as a loan and another portion as a bank loan. Stupid of him but now we are stuck with it. The life insurance was our savings net for last resort. That is now mostly gone.</p>
<p>Please advise what are our D's options. We have another D going in 5 years. I was counting on a variety of grants, loans (as little as possible) and pay as you go from income. NOw we have to use the current income to pay the loans he took out. Can the debt be offset from our EFC?</p>
<p>She is an URM and an honor student with great possibilities, we have been looking at private LAC's (not ivy) and state honors.</p>
<p>At this point divorce is also an option, this was the last straw. Would she be better off?</p>
<p>Thank you for your input.</p>