<p>So I usually do not go out very much but this weekend I decided that I would. I got drunk with my roommates. I was feeling pretty good and went to a party LITERALLY NEXT DOOR at a girls dorm. There were probably 15 people there including my 5 roommates plus the girls who live next door and some random people who live very close to my dorm. I then took a swig out of some guys bottle of vodka there. I was feeling nausious and then I literally puked ALL OVER THE FLOOR of the party. I ran into the bathroom and realized I also threw up over my button down shirt. I took it off in the bathroom and then left. Everyone realized it was me including roommates. I ran into my dorm room and shut the door and the kid who actually lives in my room went home for the weekend so Im alone. </p>
<p>I am HUMILIATED. I ruined a good party and everyone who lives near me including my other rooommates know that I am a ****ing pussy who puked and ruined a party. I dont know what I should do and im basically hiding my rooom. </p>
<p>I honestly cannot think of anything more embarrassing that I could have possibly done and i don't know what I should do. I am already socially anxious and I basically just did the worst possible thing I couild do and I just want to go home and never talk to any of these people again but that just isnt possible.</p>
<p>What do I do to not be totally humiliated for the rest of the semester?</p>
<p>would if i could man but the damage is done. i am just a totally socially awkward person to begin with and this is just so humiliating. i honestly dont know what to do iv never done something this bad before.</p>
<p>So what? College is for acting stupid. Apologize and clean up your mess. Your most important lesson is to learn to laugh at yourself. The second most is don’t mix beer and the hard stuff.</p>
<p>is this kind of a big deal? i dont want to be that kid for the rest of the year. im already extremely awkward to begin with i really dont need this as well.</p>
<p>It’s only a big deal if you let it be. You’d be amazed at how much easier life becomes when you cut yourself some slack. I’d guess your akwardness comes from some sort of impossed need to be perfect. You don’t have to be perfect. GL.</p>
<p>Freshmen do this all the time. Newfound freedom + easy access to alcohol + not enough experience with alcohol = giant mess. You’re not the first and you certainly won’t be the last to embarrass themselves due to booze, so don’t sweat it too much.</p>
<p>This is a stereotypical freshman problem for a reason. It’ll all blow over as long as you don’t keep acting weird about it- just don’t expect party invites for a little while, and when you do go, don’t get totally drunk.</p>
<p>Your entire career and professional development could have been ruined. I hope you learned your lesson.</p>
<p>Alcohol is a toxin to the human organism so I never really understood the benefits of socially consuming it or any other depressants. Legal stimulants like caffeine and DMAA are much better for you. While everyone else is slurred and slow mentally, you are on top of your game ready to dispatch any rivals and spit game at that elusive young woman you have been eying.</p>
<p>If you and your competition are under 21, it is easy to reduce them to rubble if you can keep your hands clean. Find out who is supplying them alcohol, then get police or private eyes to catch them in the act. If the supplier is a bad-type, his people will go after your competition as retribution. Refer your competition to these “bad-types” for alcohol through several intermediaries. </p>
<p>I remember getting my lady friends to entice some of my rivals to drink, and then the lady friends would entice my rivals and enemies to do stupid stuff and then one of lady friends would film it and take pictures, then post them all over the internet for the world and the college social networks to see.</p>
<p>Being embarrassed leads to more embarrassment. It’s odd but true. Think about it. A guy gets mildly embarrassed then turns beet red making the embarrassment worse. </p>
<p>Your reaction is more embarrassing than what you did. The secret is to laugh it off. Comedians joke and look stupid and tell embarrassing stories of their lives for laughs but nobody is laughing AT them, they are laughing with them.</p>
<p>So, don’t act embarrassed, laugh it off and get social again.</p>
<p>Plus, if you know you are socially awkward, avoid situations you can’t maintain self control.</p>