he's strictly ballroom

<p>There are a ton of great schools on the link Warbler gave --- your son would have solid shots at most of them. Could there be something more than ballroom dance involved with your son's refusal to look at colleges? Sometimes kids seize on the most obvious thing because they have other doubts or fears --- perhaps you need to have a heart-to-heart and dig down a little deeper to see what the real reason might be.
Good luck!</p>