<p>Actually, places like Princeton and others are offering a lot of grants and such. They may not be called "Merit based scholarships", but it's still money. Here's a excerpt from princeton's site.</p>
<p>"Princeton is the first and only university of its type to offer every aid recipient a financial aid package that replaces loans with grant aid that students do not pay back..... As a result of these changes, Princeton has been able to enroll growing numbers of students from low- and middle-income backgrounds. The change on campus becomes more noticeable each year as we welcome an increasingly diverse student body."</p>
<p>Don't get me wrong. Not everyone is eligible for all the different aid, scholarship, etc... packages. Also, each school is different. I was just mentioning that getting the money wasn't as intrusive. There weren't as many "If you get this, you CAN'T get this" type of conditions. </p>
<p>As far as acceptance goes, that is a barrel shoot. Each individual school has their own form a diversity. MOST schools will usually have more applicants than they have room for. Therefor, each school will offer openings depending on their criteria. 2 identical applicants can apply and one get it and one won't depending on their location, income, race, gender, etc... I would say that an applicant from Wyoming, North Dakota, Montana, etc... with a 4.0gpa, 30act, 2200SAT, etc... would have an easier time getting into Yale, Cornell, Harvard, USC, Stanford, etc... than someone with possibly higher numbers from New York or California. If you are a woman or racial minority, your chances go up even more. If you come from an ULTA-POOR economic background, you have a much better chance. The list goes on.</p>
<p>In other words, each applicant is individual. I wouldn't say that ANY SCHOOL is more difficult than any other to get into. You just have to apply. Most people don't apply. All the people saying how hard it is to get into the Ivy leagues, west coast ivy, Hi-Tech (MIT/CALTECH, etc...) PROBABLY NEVER APPLIED, Just like how no one asks the prettiest girl in school to go to the dance because they think EVERYONE else asked her. It doesn't matter if the acceptance rate is 10% or 40%. You could just as easily be in either category.</p>
<p>MANY schools waiver application fees. Especially if done online. There's no reason in the world to not apply to the schools you want. My son has applied to 4 different schools and has shown interest in 2 others. He got accepted to ALL 4 OF THE SCHOOLS and the other 2 he is interested in we have spoken with on the phone and they sound very promising. Both for admittance and financially. People definitely need to do their homework. There's a lot of very fine schools out there that aren't as expensive when all is said and done. I know Tulane is a very fine school. Especially in medicine and such. But unless they come through with some other grants, work programs, scholarships, etc.... then it would be stupid for my son to go their and start off his life with student loans. Especially when there are plenty of schools that won't cost him as much. </p>
<p>For what it's worth, I'm not wealthy nor am I poor. I'm the typical middle class that gets screwed over on the FAFSA and doesn't qualify for a lot of aid. Ain't that a *****. Try hard to work hard, make a living, provide for your family, DON'T tell welfare or other public assistance, don't take reduced lunches at school for the kids, donate to others when possible, and not be a burden on society; and in return get punished. Hell, illegal immigrants get more benefits than the middle class. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that there aren't some that truly need assistance. Including educationally. But once high school is over, I believe that each student starts off on the same slate. Maybe not the uber rich, but out of high school, if the kid worked hard they should be rewarded by having the opportunity to go to college. If you make $200,000 or more a year, you don't care about paying for your kid to go to college. If you make under $35,000 you don't care either because you can get free college to just about any school in the country. If you make $50,000 - $100,000 as a family income, you are totally screwed. Something wrong with that picture. </p>
<p>Oh well. My son does have options. That's all I could ever hope by raising him. I didn't want to "GIVE" him things. I wanted him to work for it. I didn't want him to be a burden on society. What I did want was to give him options. He graduated class rank of #1. He has his 4.0gpa unweighted. Has excellent act/sat score. The list goes on. I know that academically/ec/etc.... he could probably get accepted to just about any school in the country. (Just about). He chose the handful that he wanted. They have all said yes so far. Some are even willing to pay almost 100% of everything. Those are some awesome choices. I encourage people to look at their choices. You have a lot more than you think. Don't let others tell you what you CAN'T have or do. Anyway, thanks for all the info here. Tulane is a wonderful university. Hopefully it will remain an option. I'm sure my son would love it. We'll just have to wait and see. At least there's some very fine schools that money is no longer an issue for.</p>